Hello savemygrandbaby, nice to meet you, although I wish it was under different circumstances.
Unfortunately there isn't much you can do in regards to your daughter.... I'm sorry to say that there is no treatment for NPD, thus no cure. In regards to your grandchild, you as a grandparent do have rights that the courts are recognizing...you could apply to the court for visitation, but if you feel your grandchild's physical/emotional well being is questionable, you can tell family services your concerns. (not that I am a promoter of the way family services works, but at least they could check up on your grandchild and if anything is out of the ordinary, monitor the situation.)
I know how you feel being so far away from your grandchild, I have two granddaughters that I haven't seen since January 18th, and won't see anytime soon as my son and his wife have moved out of the area... (but neglected to tell me) I have an idea where they moved. My daughter has NPD as well as Psychopathic tendencies, she has caused so much heartache in my family to where I am now, no contact with her or her oldest son because of her disordered thinking/behavior.
Hang in there, we have some awesome links with lots of information on this site, and the members here are incredible caring people, for me it was helpful to know that I wasn't alone....everyone here is on the same path you are on so please keep posting.
I send you peace
Shadow Dancer
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