You're better off without that idiot doctor. Just keep thinking that and move on. Keep your records from the old doc that shows your surgeries and injuries, keep any records that document your injuries from the car wreck, and try to find another doctor; one who doesn't know this idiot.
Did you read the << *Strategy for Medical Control of Pain* >>? It's a comprehensive strategy to help your doctor get to the place where he or she can feel OK about prescribing medications for you. It takes a little patience and some time, but it works. As far as I know, it's never failed. And it's very important in a state like New York where the doctors are under the gun for prescribing any narcotics.
Lots of love and healing hugs,
Dan