hi guys
well as always,i turn to my haven family for guidance,and as always,its about relationships.
adam (most of you will remember my drama there with my best friend/became more) told me last night that his ex (the one he got pregnant) and her kids are moving into his place because theyre getting chucked out of theirs by the landlord
he insists that he is only doing this to help her out as a friend,and given that she kept a roof over his head while he did not much for a couple of years,in a way i understand what he is doing.
but how can i be sure? i dont like to think about it but the reality is that she moves in,starts playing good little housewifey,cooking and cleaning,and i fall off the radar
now maybe this is incredibly selfish but i cannot help it.my question is,do i sit back and say nothing and wait to see what happens
and i guess some of you are thinking 'what can you do anyway?'.well,the thing is,after the crap went down with him,and we got past it,he seems to have this perception that all is perfectly fine and that we can just be 'friends'.he doesnt realise,or see,or comprehend that my feelings dont just switch off,that i love him more than he knows
so the question then becomes,do i tell him what im feeling and risk losing it all,or do i keep quiet and wait to see what happens?
i need your advice on this one guys,please.
xx
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