BUTTERFLY & ANGEL'S SPIRITUAL HAVEN

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Could anybody give me a bit of guidance please? I'm feeling a bit lost at the moment. Nothing seems to have been going right around me for the last couple of months and I've taken a step back, isolating myself from the outside World once again to protect myself.

Even with the professional help from my counsellor I seem to be lost in the fog again and can't seem to find a way out! I am so frightened of being sucked back into the "Black Hole"!

If it helps, there is a photo on my profile...

I would be greatful for any advice/guidance please. My children depend on me.

I am sorry you are feeling down. The black hole you talk about isnt a nice place to be . Will you do something that may boost your confidence ?

Look at yourself in a mirror , look how beautiful , and unique you are hun . Say out loud , I love you . ( not easy to do for sure ) but Liberty , trust in that saying , look in the mirror often , repeat the words over and over again. Put on your shoes, coat if needed , go out , take a walk and know yourself to be confident , know that you are special and dont hide away any more !!

Here is a little Angel guidence for you :

Card meaning : Spending time alone in nature is important to you . Even 5 minutes in a garden would be healing for you right now.

By drawing this card , the angels ask you to interact with nature more often, every day if possible. This card also signifies that you may be happier living in a more rural setting . If you have thought about moving away from city life , this card is additional validation . Also , this card may be encouraging you to choose an occupation involving plants or animals. For instance , you may enjoy gardening , nursery or vetinary work , pet-sitting , or delving into the world of animal communication.

Your angels , and the nature angels . are helping you discover and give your gifts to the world . Help them to help you by spending more time in nature.

Liberty I could not see your photo hun it was just a red X

God bless you hun

Thanks SOOooooo much BB

Your Angel guidance is EXACTLY what I needed to hear....It's me all over! It's just a shame people around me don't agree.

I doubt very much looking at myself in a mirror would boost my confidence as it's a constant reminder of who "I was" and who I have become but I will try.

I gave up the stressful job , financial security, the suits & high heels & everything that goes with it a few years ago hoping to lead that kind of life but it seems that I am paying for it in many different ways, mainly losing close ones who don't understand/agree with my decision. Hence why I'm not getting any support!

I also accept things are "thrown" at me & happen for a reason, mainly to learn from them, but sometimes it just feels as if I'm being "punished" for making that decision...

Your Angel guidance has given me that extra lift to persevere.

P.S: I have tried to attach a photo & any guidance/help is MUCH appreciated.

Hi Liberty hun , thankyou for validating , I am so pleased that you understood .

Liberty you say looking into a mirror is a constant reminder of who you were and who you have become . It is for this reason you need to persevere and realise you are a unique and beautiful person . When you can accept yourself , watch others then accept you are for what you want you to be , not their choice hun , this is your life , your body and your being.

There are times when others cannot see why we give up that fabulous career, give up the lifestyle that is envied by others. Giving up , they dont understand why. What they do not see or maybe not understand , is everyone has a different veiw to what they want and why they want it . Wouldnt it be a boring world if we all wanted the same thing ?

Liberty changing any lifestyle is not easy , it takes time , it is not a punishment hun , so please do not think that way.

God bless you in the future and whatever it holds for you with your choice hun .

That's a lovely picture. heaps of people would love to be that beautiful on the outside.. and I'm sure you are a nice person ont he inside too.

I feel that what you are experienceing is a transition of self .People tend to look at what is going on around them ,others opinions , new unfamiliar surroundings they find themselves in , old friends and confidents leaveing and new ones entering into thier lives etc.We need to concentrate on what is happenning with self,inside us , when going through a personal transition .Things will be out of sinc and unfamiliar but what we need to hold on to at this time is what is in our own hearts and minds .Being true to self and ones own needs, this may cause disruption for others ,but its not about them its about us ,it is our time .Every now and again we have to stop and take stock of our lives . Try not to see this disruption of life as a blackhole ,everything going wrong , its not going wrong events are just uncanny and unfamiliar to us that does not make it wrong.Trust in the workings of the unkown for the greater good . Stop viewing the transaction as a negative and start to view it as a positive . As you say everything happens for a reason ,a positive reason ,When we dont recognise or find events in our lives to be familiar or have any understanding of them we tend to view them as a negative . Draw on your inner positive strength and work through this .This journey is about you and finding your own strength and your own truth in this life .We will come to many crossroads and hurdles in this life ,many decisions to be made along the way, the transition is about you .Take any support that is offered to you along the way and leave behind anyones disaproval .It is no good battleing with those who are trying to discourage you from finding your own truth ,they will never understand it now if they did not understand it to begin, with and they are just holding you up just another hurdle to climb . It matters not what they think we were all born with free will and now is your time to exercise your free will .Take comfort from knowing that the changes you are making are not with the intent of hurting or harming others .The intentions are to better you .Sometimes we have to be selfish and follow our own heart . If you are not happy then others around you will not be happy your unhappiness will reflect on others they obviously just dont get that at this time . Do what is right for you take time for self and ride this transition through as smoothly as possible .It may be lonely for a while but it may be that this lonely time is needed for you right now ,without the distractions of others to enbable you to go inside self and find your true self .Having said that you are never totlly alone .Sometimes on a spiritual level transitions occur because we have a new guide around us or a spirit of a loved one who is trying to guide us and we are not paying attention we are not hearing them . We may be having our lives disrupted to bring us to retreat to be alone so that we can sit quietly stop and listen or to take stock of what has past and where we are at in life and which direction to take next .Our own inner selves can create this ,it is a time to still your mind and connect with inner self .I sat here and read this message and thought wow great things are ahead for this woman great life changes she just does not recognise it .How uncanny that BB spoke of you finding comfort and stillness in your garden and your pic is of you in your garden . Hope this was of some help to you .

My Prayers are with you,

Love Whitecloud.x

Sorry to hear that you're feeling down at the moment. Hun, please hang in there, be true to yourself ( in all ways) and things will work out.

What is it you want ?

What makes you happy ?

What really fulfills you ?

Be good to yourself, hun. You deserve it !

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