Christians Caring and Sharing

I lost my first going to be son in law Jeremy on Nov18th,1998 in a car accident. Jeremy had ran off the road one time to the right and hit the gravel, my daughter said honey we better put on our seatbelts. I had taught my kids to always wear there seatbelts. She put her's on and then he ran off the road on to the gravel again but this time we are guessing he lost control hit a cattle guard the metal kind in the drive way of some one's farm and the car went air born, flipped 3 times and my daughter when it hit hit her head on the roof, which knocked her out and then as the car rolled she slipped out of the seatbelt and the car landed sideways with her under it. Jeremy went out the side drivers side window on impact and bleed to death on the road from a head injury the EMT said. He was right behind them and he said there was nothing he could do because the head injury was to bad, so he had people pull over and get the car off of Mandy. During all this a bystander call's me from her cell phone and starts telling me step by step what they were doing with the car and my daughter. It was awful because the cell phone kept cutting us off. My daughter stayed in the hospital one night then came home with me and the next morning she woke up screaming mom and I knew she had lost the baby, that was Nov 20, 1998. That Baby is Baby Long.

On the morning of Feb 14th,2000 which also happen's to be Jeremy's birthday my son Russell got up that morning and they were out of school for teachers inservice so he ate a bowl of cereal and said good bye and left about 10:15. I told him be home by 2:00. I also told him for some reason not to get in the car with anybody. That was the last time I saw my son alive. At around 11:30 he was walking toward the car wash home and one of the girls that had a crush on him pulled over and Jimmy and his girlfriend in the car already. He got in. They stopped at the Dollar Store where he had worked on a temp basis and the boss told him she could hire him for good now. They bought a few things like cupcakes for the boys ect for valentines day and decided they were going to Fayetteville to eat then they turned around and decided to go to Jimmy's girlfriends house to make cookies for the boys. On the way just 5 minutes after they left the Dollar Store at 12:00 noon the driver says a dog ran into the road and she swerved to keep from hitting it. She hit the gas and not the brake and they headed for a tree in the raveen. She and the police said Russell held onto her on impact but as he was being ripped from the car he looked at her and let go knowing he would rip her out with him. My son had his seatbelt on but the tree they hit ripped the car open like a tuna fish can all the way down his side of the car. Jimmy, his best friend called me his mom because his real mom never even called him on his birthday or Christmas even that last year of his life. She was a druggie and in prison and Jimmy lived with his father's mother, his grandma. His father is married to a witch a real one. Wiccia I believe so Jimmy didn't have anything to do with her or him. Russell had gotten Jimmy to walk in front of the Church just 6 months before. Jimmy came home and said mom, mom guess what? I said what Jimmy? He said Russell has ruined my image. I said how Jimmy? He said Russell got me to go in front of the church and I cried, now my image is ruined with the girls. LOL Anyway not to go on and on, Jimmy was not wearing his seatbelt and in the backseat behind Russell and his girlfriend had her head in Jimmy's lap because she was not feeling well. Jimmy flew through the front windshield and broke his neck along with most of his limbs. My husband said most were barely hanging on, they were compound fractures. I think that is what they are called. My baby Jimmy was only 145lbs and 5'8" My son Russell was 245lbs and 6'2" and they were both only 16 years old. Jimmys girl friend is now crippled. She was pinned in the backseat until the jaws of life pulled her out. Her pelvic bones were crushed and now she has one leg about 3 inches shorter than the other. She was in a coma a month after but when she came out and they told her of Russell and Jimmy they had to induce her back into a coma until they could help her deal with it. The driver as always walks away. They found her walking down the road in a daze with blood running down her face. She cut her forehead that was all. Russell's wallet supposedly had come out of his back pocket and was under a rock which the officer didn't find until the next day. The neighbor came running over saying that Russell had been in a accident he thought because people were calling him asking where Russell was. Then our phone started ringing and my husband started calling hospitals and I started getting ready thinking it would like Mandys and he was in the hospital. Well they never took them to the hospital. The took them to the funeral home in the next town over. They said the girl wouldn't talk and no one knew who they were. This was 2:25pm by now. My husband works nights so this was like night time to us, day time to normal people. My husband got dressed and went to the funeral home to see the two unidentified bodys they had. It was my Russell laying there looking up to the sky like he saw Jesus and was sleeping and Jimmy's poor broken body looking terrible. George closed my babys eyes and came home to tell me my babies were dead. We had there wake side by side. Bought flowers that said Best Friends Forever. Jimmys was obvious but Russell's I don't know they didn't do a autopsy. He had a little blood coming from his ear. A mark on his chest where the seatbelt had ripped him from the car. It was the over the door seatbelt so when the car was beening ripped open and down his side it took him and the belt with it. The death certificate says multi-system trauma. Plus some blood on his thigh coming through his pants.

Now on to the last baby, Baby Clark. my daughter is married to a nice boy now,her age. After Jeremy she felt guilty to be alive with Jeremy and the baby gone and married a evil little man that was 6 1/2 years older than her. He would always say to Russell she's not worth dieing for,I won't die for her. many times Russell tried to get the chicken out of his truck and get him to fight (crying all the while, because Russell had such a big heart). This man took full advantage of people in terrible heart break until we started coming out of our fog. You know when you can finally start to think again? Jeremy would always pray at night God don't take the girl take me if you take someone. Ask Monette I talked to her about it when it all was coming about. Anyway she is married to a beautiful nice young Christain man now who would do anything for her. She found out she was pregnant on Nov 18th last year and called me and told me. I asked her do you know what day this is? She said I know. I was so worried about the RH negitive because she is RH negitive a I didn't remember them giving her a shot for it when she miscarried at the hospital with Baby Long. I was right because on the Nov 20th the same day she lost Jeremy's baby 5 years later she lost her new husbands baby. But she went to the hospital and got the shot and now she is pregnant again and they say everything should be OK now that she has had the shot.

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