The Art Of Self-Control    

July 08, 2006

"So think clearly and exercise self-control." I Peter 1:13

In the 1960s, which was considered the hippie generation within the United
States, there was a popular phrase, "If it feels good, do it!" Obviously, this
was a message promoting instant gratification, minus worry of the probable
consequences. Today, many people affirm this is the "me" generation. In other
words, everything is about the individual's needs, whims and desires.

At a glance, these may sound like very suitable life philosophies, but let us
keep in mind that what society may deem popular is not always what God considers
appropriate.

You may ask, "Whats wrong with satisfying a desire of mine? After all, am I not
worth it? I see no reason to deprive myself of what makes me feel good!"

Quenching healthy desires is a very good thing, but it is the feeding of poison
in to our minds, bodies and spirits that ultimately brings sickness and risk of
death to our souls. For example, a vile of heroine may bring temporary nirvana,
but most wise individuals understand why it is best to leave such substances
alone.

Unfortunately, satan is such a clever deceiver that not all things which are a
danger to us are so clearly marked. Consider the married husband or wife who has
a bit too much to drink at a night club, and is seriously considering an
extra-marital affair with the stranger flirting with them. Their mind and body
might be saying, Go for it! It will feel great, and what your spouse doesnt know
wont hurt them." But the reality is that the sin of adultery will hurt not only
God and your own spiritual welfare, but there will be a negative effect within
your marriage. This is just one of many examples that things are not always as
they seem.

As the above Bible verse portrays, it is best for us to think clearly (soberly
and using godly wisdom) and to practice the art of self-control. The ability to
refuse and turn away from those things unhealthy and harmful to our minds,
bodies and spirits, is not about deprivation, but rather about protecting
ourselves and our loved ones. It is the wise and mature person who understands
the beauty in the word "no".

"No, I will not go on a date with you because I am married!"

"No, I will not try those drugs because I prefer to be healthy and in control!"

"No, I will not commit that crime because it is illegal and simply wrong to
steal what I have not earned honorably myself!"

Yes, my friends, sometimes it is necessary in life to say a firm "No".

Other times, such as when considering our acceptance of Christ into our Lives,
it is good to say Yes!

Contributed by Melanie Schurr