Your mind is stuck in a vicious spin cycle. Your problems circle around and around inside your head like a runaway sock in a laundromat dryer. There is no solution in sight, just sheer burnout.
This maddening mental phenomenon is called "circular thinking."
Everyone occasionally rehashes an old problem. But when it becomes a habit, circular thinking can lead to mental and physical exhaustion. It can interfere with sleep, work, family, and spiritual life. And it's an ineffective way to problem-solve. It takes up all your energy without giving anything back.
Try these tips for getting off the worry cycle and back into the life cycle:
Catch yourself in the act. The first step to stopping circular thinking is to become aware of when you're doing it.
Be kind to your mind. Understand that to think effectively, your mind needs rest. Clear your mind at certain times of the day to observe a few moments of silence. Also, shut off all thoughts whenever you find yourself spinning.
Learn a meditative art. A yoga or meditation instructor can show you the skills you'll need to stop worrying and to get in touch with your positive inner voice.
Get moving. Whenever you sense that you're on mental repeat, get up and start doing something productive. Exercise, cook, do a crossword puzzle, take a bath, go to a movie, etc. Sometimes you just need to remove yourself from a worry location.
Stop, rock and roll. Take a break from your worries and listen to your favorite upbeat music. Better yet, dance to it.
Seek help. If you can't break the worry cycle, seek help from a qualified counselor. Circular thinking can be a symptom of depression or chemical imbalance. Prepared by Eden Fairchild for Dreamlife (copyright 2001)
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