Life is meant to be shared

God intends us to experience life together called fellowship

such as: casual conversation- socializing - food - fun -

But where?

it is experiencing life together - including unselfish loving - honest sharing - practical serving - sacricial giving - sympathetic comforting

when you fellowship some time matters you can worship in a crowd but you can not fellowship in one

once a group becomes larger than about ten people someone stopes particapating usually the quietest person and few people will dominate the group

Jesus chose 12 for maximum for everyone to participate

the body of Christ, like your own body is really a collectin of many small cells

authencitic fellowship is not superficial, surface level chit chat it is genuine heart to heart some times gut level sharing

it is only as we become open about our lives that we experience real fellowship

mutuality is the act of giving and receiving

you are not responsible for everyone in the body of Christ but you are responsible to them

God expects you to do what ever you can to help them

sympathy isn ot quick advice or cometic help

sympathy is entering in and sharing the pain of others (empathy) meets two human needs : to be understood: and validations

fellowships is a place of grace where mistakes aren't rubbed in but rubbed out

fellowship happens when mercy wins over justice

you can't fellowship without forgiveness

Person hurts you repeatedly you are to forgive immediately or intantly - but not expectly to trust them instantly or expected to continually allow them to hurt you

Day 18

I need others in my life

What one step can I take today to connect with another believer at a more genuine, heart to heart level?

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Continuing.... 40 Day Challenge

Real fellowship is so much more than just showing up at services. It is experiencing life together. It includes unselfish loving, honest sharing, practical serving, sacrificial giving, sympathetic comforting, and all the other one another commands found in the New Testament.

The Body of Christ, like your own body, is really a collection of many small cells. The life of the Body of Christ, like your body, is contained in the cells. For this reason, every Christian needs to be involved in a small group within their church, whether is it a home fellowship group, a Sunday school class, or a Bible study. If you think of your church as a ship, the small groups are the lifeboats attached to it. It is only as we become open about our lives that we experience real fellowship.

The Bible says, If we live in the light, as God is in the light, we can share fellowship with each other If we say we have no sin, we are fooling ourselves. The world thinks intimacy occurs in the dark, but God says it happens in the light. Darkness is used to hide our hurts, faults, fears, failures, and flaws. But in the light, we bring them all out into the open and admit who we really are. You were created for community.