Dearest Ruth, first of all sorry for the tardy reply.   I am having a time of it myself.
  
 I pray most of all for your dad, I pray he has your faith and can take comfort
 in that and of course I thank God for your faith and send you a big hug.
  
 Having just lost my mum 26th August and then my sister 13th Jan this year,
 I know that "family issues" do occur at these times.   They say families
 fall out at weddings, that it can be a nightmare but I feel funerals can be
 just as bad if not worse.  I am so sorry the way things were handled and
 I pray for all your releations as you requested.   It was quite different
 at mums passing, there were so many miracles, evidences from God,
 that it really really helped and transformations.   But I am still dealing
 with serious issues re my sisters son and my family.  I ask for your
 prayers for these situations to be resolved according to Gods Plan
 and soon if possible.
  
 I pray the Holy Comforter comforts you and your Dad and that those
 around you comfort you with the comfort they have already received
 themselves in past times.
  
 God bless Ruth
  
 let us know how you and Dad are doing pse
  
 Mary xoxo
  
 My heartfelt sympathies on your loss.