Hi there Scream

 

I know something about your life - we are all unique though

 

Have you tried a Tough Love Programme?

 

I can tell you a bit about Tough Love if it would help but seeing as you seem to really need to interact with someone - and so did I -

 

I would suggest Tough Love

 

It's a 12 Step Programme and we all start from the same place - that someone in our lives is taking over

 

The people in these groups are as desperate as you - believe me - I have been through it myself

 

Basically - the message is

 

"I love you but I hate what you are doing so either stop doing it here or go away and do it somewhere else"

 

And alas - sometimes some people will push everything until the final limit - they will die.

 

I know this is hard - for me - it's all in the past tense - and I don't often mention it - but my P pushed it until the final limit

 

Take care

 

Sparky