I did it , I went to court and guess what D did not show. I took my seat when my name was called. the judge called my name. I asked the judge to cut the binds and he upheld the restraining order.I also asked what do I need to do as far as small claims court. He sent me to the right room and with me good luck.I wish I know how to divorce him from our lives. He only contacted us because he wanted something. owes us over 5.000 and he needs to be held accountable. I am so tired and drained rieght now. Bless you all for having this group. hawk