Unfortunately there isn't anything we can do...except protect ourselves from the chaos and destruction these kids create.
I have been round and round the circuit with my daughter and it always ends up being all my fault...doesn't matter what it is, I'm to blame. She gets her knickers in a twist and if I don't come on board then I'm left bloodied by the roadside...not any more. This last episode was the proverbial straw that broke the camels back. The one postive thing that came out of it all was my oldest son's true colors were exposed and I have no delusions about him now...I know where I stand completely...and I know where they stand.... outside my life.
Like genie said there comes a time when enough is enough. the time comes when love just isn't enough and you have to walk away.
Sorry, wish there was some hope I could give you.... sadly the only hope we have is that with time we eventually move on... a little battered and bruised, a little less naive....but a lot stronger and wiser....
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