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From: MSN NicknameJust2muchpain  (Original Message)Sent: 10/7/2004 2:19 PM
Hello, I'm a 35 year old housewife. I was hit by a car back when I was 12 and I had closed head injuries,shattered and broken left leg,4 broken ribs,and a broken pelvis! I was in a coma for a month and so I had to relearn everything all over again. I've had 15 knee surgeries my last one was a total knee replacement! I'm now going through a very bad time with my back I fell last dec and broke my back at L1! So now my pain doc instead of doing other stuff with it he gives me pain meds wich I don't want!!!! I have 3 buldging and 3 hurnated discs in my back! So I'm not doing to much right now !I'm on SSI due to my accident and now I can't stand nor sit for any amount of time! Just doing this has me in tears so if you want to know more about me please feel free to e mail me!!!!                   Thanks,
                                                         Faye


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From: MSN NicknametheboysmomtjSent: 10/7/2004 5:28 PM
Welcome to the group Faye, you will find so much love and compassion in this group.  Lots of help and lots of caring!  Welcome again.  Anne-marie

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From: DanSent: 10/8/2004 1:43 AM
Hi, Faye.  Welcome to the family.  Gosh, you've certainly had a lot of "adventure" for one so young.  It's a shame you're having so much pain now. 
 
I'm Dan, one of the managers here.  Cyndy and Hannah will be along shortly, I'm sure in order to welcome you.  As will the rest of the community.   Over on the left is a lot of information on pain.  Dig in and read away.  If you have questions, feel free to ask.   
 
Tell me why you're so adamant about not wanting the pain medications?  Are you worried about "addiction"?  Are you afraid you will become some sort of "junkie" or "drug seeker"?  That's the implication. 
 
Or are they not sitting well with you?  Are they making you feel doped up? 
 
What's the reason you don't want pain medicines, hon?  They are the treatment of choice for acute and chronic pain, you know.  But we can talk about that later.  Just tell me why you're so set against them, OK? 
 
Welcome again,
 
Healing hugs and lots of love,
 
Dan

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From: MSN NicknameJust2muchpainSent: 10/8/2004 9:52 PM
Well first off thank you for a worm welcome!! Seconed I don't want pain pills because my father is a pain pill junky and it's torn our family apart! So I don't want to end up like him but if I have to I will just to get this under control! I'm not nocking anyone but my father. I know lots of people on pain pills and it does wonders for them. It's just that I want more out of life then to have to depend on pills for ever I know I may have to!!!

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From: DanSent: 10/9/2004 12:47 AM
Ahhh, I see. 
 
Well, hon.  There's a difference between someone who takes pain pills to get high and someone who takes them for pain.  There's a BIG difference. 
 
The person who takes them to get high, and subsequently becomes a drug seeker and an addict, has no pain.  Or, he or she has no physical pain really.  They take the pain pills to get an effect, and to feed a psychological need.  l
 
A person who takes pain medication for pain, just feels the pain get better.  He or she takes the pain medication like a diabetic takes  insulin, or a heart patient takes nitroglycerin.  We take our pain meds to stop the pain.  We get no feeling of being high from them.  The pain just gets better.  Typically, the pain doesn't go away completely, it just gets tollerable. 
 
Over time, we become dependent on our meds, just as a diabetic is dependent on his or her insuilin, or a heart patient may be dependent on his or her nitroglycerin.  If the medication is stopped, our pain returns and we go through withdrawal.  So withholding pain meds at that point in time is a bad thing.  However, we're not addicted like an addict is addicted. 
 
A pain patient isn't going to sell his or her body for some pain meds.  For one thing, it would probably hurt too much.  For another, we retain some pride in ourselves.  We're not junkies.  And we know it.  Yes we take high doses of narcotics, some of us, but we do it only because we must. 
 
So rethink your position, please.  You are not your father.  He had a disease called addiction.  You have a condition called pain.  His disease is caused by the very medications that help you with your condition. 
 
Hugs and lots of love,
 
Dan

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From: MSN NicknameKatie437Sent: 10/20/2004 5:24 AM
Faye, it sure shows that you have a lot of strength to come away from that horrible of an accident.  I am sorry that you are left with so much day to day pain.  I am glad that you found this group.  As you can see from Dan, there is so much wisdom from things that have been gone through before by so many.  Education is a key to getting through anything and being able to take control.
Hope to learn more about you as you post.
Hugs,
Katie

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From: MSN NicknameJust2muchpainSent: 12/3/2004 2:16 AM
Sorry I haven't responded before this but I've been busy. I was going to pt yet again then this past saturday morning I had my gall bladder taken out!!!! But I'm back now!!  

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From: MSN NicknameKatie437Sent: 12/9/2004 2:18 AM
I am glad that you are back and hope you start feeling better with that sick gall bladder out.  They seem to be more trouble than they are worth don't they.  I hope to see more of you and get to know you better.
Hugs
Katie

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