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From: Grama Deb  (Original Message)Sent: 2/5/2007 5:54 AM
Hi,  I am new to the group.  I have heard from Debra on occasion and have learned so much from her.  I appreciate the guidance. 
  I have been off of work for almost four years now.  It started with a little foot surgery that turned into a nightmare.  Staff infection in the bone,  I also have osteoporosis in my back .  I am have leg pain because of the way I walk to baby my feet and back.  I also need surgery on a hand, but am nervous about that.  
  It sounds like I am in my 80's when actually I will be 56 in April. 
  I realize that my friends and family are tired of me being "ILL" all of the time.  I try not to mention it.  I have one little grandson that is 14 that notices the dark circles and my limp.  He gives me comfort and even a little sympathy, which I really don't crave.  I would just like to feel better. 
  I am so tired of my friends telling me how lucky I am to be able to stay home and not work.  I would rather feel well and work.  I get lonely and depressed.  Funny they don't notice that .... 
Enough whining.  I am blessed with a loving family and so glad that I found this group.  Thanks for all of the posts.  I do feel better after reading them.. 
Deb


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From: MSN Nicknametomcat5162Sent: 2/7/2007 8:52 PM
Hey Deb, Glad you found the group.  I think this group will help you soooooo much.  If not, you will have my email addy and I will be happy to continue to correspond with you via email.   But I think you will find answers beyond belief from the vast wealth of information that is shared beyond all of our members.  Just give it a try.  We are all good hearted people and genuinely care about our members. 
Again, so glad to see you found us!  Talk to you soon!
tomcat/aka Debra

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From: Hannah.Sent: 2/9/2007 4:35 PM
Hi Granda Deb
I am so sorry you are suffering with that staff infection in bone, it must be really hard for you, and back pain on top on that. 
 
Go ahead and tell them you'd rather be working than home for illness.  Tell them you don't feel  very lucky, but you know  you are blessed in having your loving family, that you are very grateful for, but still,  you often feel lonely and depressed being at home and in pain.  
 
I do believe some people who have not experienced long term problems, don't always realize saying those kind of things hits a nerve with a some of people.  Especially on a bad  pain day.  I think they are often are trying to take a light hearted attitude towards the situation you are in, to make you feel better. 
 
Do you know what I mean?
Hope today will be a low pain day for you Deb.
 

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From: Grama DebSent: 4/9/2007 7:41 PM
Hannah,   I just ran onto your message from months ago.  I wanted to thank you. I appreciate your advice.  grama deb
 
 

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From: MSN NicknameBetween_Lines_And_VersesSent: 4/23/2008 11:57 PM
Hi Deb:
 
I know what you mean. I would rather be working then unable to work. But we all must do the best we can! I am 54 and have had many surgeries. As long as they explain everything to you, and you see hope in what they are going to do to improve your health, just make sure they sedate you properly, and when you wake up and get through your recovery time, you may feel really better. I trust my VA hospital drs. with my life.
 
Best wishes,
 
Raymond.

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