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From: MSN NicknameGee24023688UK  (Original Message)Sent: 3/18/2007 8:52 PM
My name is Gerhard but I am known as Gee, I am a 58 year old male from Exeter, Devon, UK. Up until 8 years ago, I had a pretty healthy life, 15 years in the Armed Forces, a keen runner (long distance) hiker and general outdoor person. I enjoyed Sub aqua diving and have been lucky enough to travel fairly extensively around the world.
8 years ago following a holiday to Florida, I suffered an extreme pain in my right arm/shoulder. Within a few hours I was taken into hospital where it was discovered my bloods were not right and I had 2 mysterious bone lumps appear, 1 on my shoulder and the other located around the top right of my rib cage. Eventually these lumps were surgically removed and sent away for analysis. But all appeared normal.
For the next 5 years I was in and out of hospital like a yo yo,  the main problems were bone pain and weakness in my legs and arms. I collapsed several times and my blood CRP levels would shoot up indicating internal bone infections.
After just about every type of test/scan known to man kind, I was finally diagnosed with CRMO - Chronic Recurrent Multifocal Osteomyilitis (Sterile).
At about the same time as the diagnosis was made, I started suffering from a lot of nerve type pain, pins and needles, burning feet and hands, numbness in certain areas of my body etc.
After a series of neurological tests it was discovered I have severe peripheral/motor neuropathy.
It seemed fairly logical to me that the 2 complaints must be linked, but neither of my specialists agree with my beliefs.
2 years ago the Osteomyilitis struck again in my lower spine area, unfortunately it also poisoned my blood and for 2 or 3 weeks it was touch and go. I was kept in hospital for nearly 3 months and had to wear a plastic corset type support for a further 6 months. It has left me with a badly damaged lower spine.
 I am due to see the spinal surgeons in a week or two as it turns out I have 2 areas of narrowing of the spinal chord (Spinal Stenosis)that are causing me problems with walking, neck, head and ear ache and weak arms.
My medication includes MST (Morphine) 200mgs per day with Oral Morphine whenever required, Volterol/Diclofenac (anti inflamatory)150mg daily, Progabalin (Nerve pain control)200mg a day, 8 x 500mg paracetomal a day, plus a few Vitamin Tablets recommended by the pain clinic. I have also had a series of Gamma Globulin infusions which necessitate a 5 day hospital stay with a 3 pint infusion each day, I receive these every 4 months.
I am convinced that I have been incorrectly diagnosed, there must be a common denominator somewhere, but once you have been given a label  (CRMO) it sticks and because its a fairly rare label, very little is known about it,-  in this country anyway.
Thats the history, the realities are that I spend every day in pain and a slight 'not quite with it' feeling due to the drugs. I am fairly limited in what I can do and dread going to bed as it is the most uncomfortable position for me. I get very little sleep and on the occassions when I do sleep, it takes me at least an hour or more to straighten up and walk around the house properly, my feet, ankles,knees and hands swell up and are also very painful. Another problem is that physically I look very healthy and fit!
Has anyone else suffered from this type of complaint or even heard of it?
Also does anyone know of any type of regularly populated chat room where you can talk to people who suffer from constant pain and will understand where you are coming from. Most of the time I cope well, but every now and again the pain wears me down and I need to be able to talk.
If you have got this far - Thank you for reading this, I have tried to condense it and am sure I have missed out lots of bits, but you have the main facts.
Hope I get some replies.
Gee


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From: DanSent: 3/19/2007 12:32 AM
Hello, Gee.  Welcome to the family.  And we are a family, by virture of one thing, we all know what it is to hurt 24/7. 
 
I'm Dan one of the managers here.  all that really means is that everyone gets to yell at me if something goes wrong.   
 
It's good to have another guy on the site.  You can help the rest of us guys keep all these women in line.  They out-number us about 3 to 1 here and I swear, they think they know everything.  Well, you know how women are.  So it's good to have another guy around.  Hopefully they won't see that.  Heh, heh.    (JUST KIDDING, ladies...) 
 
I suppose I'm in real trouble now.  But so, what else is new? 
 
Over on the left is a lot of information on Chronic pain, both from the staff and members and also links to other sites that are pertinent to chronic pain.  Let us know if you have any questions. 
 
Welcome again,
 
Dan
 
PS.  If you could use a larger font, say size 4 or 5 those of us with weak eyes would sure appreciate it.  Thanks...
 
 
 

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From: MSN NicknameNatzoSwiftSent: 3/22/2007 1:42 PM
Hi Gee:
I figured I would come in here to read your first post...and, boy, you have had your share.  I know it's frustrating....my mom had osteomyletis...and was in the hospital for 3 months, too.  It really marked the 'beginning of the end' for her.  She pretty much gave up living....and, she got liver/colon cancer shortly after that, and never had the will to go on; although she did go through chemo.  Doctors told her she was doing 'better' but she would never believe it; she was always a 'pessimist' in life though...I am totally the opposite...lol.
 
Anyway, I know it's tough being 'labeled' with a diagnosis, even though you feel in your heart (and mind) that it's 'something else'; but try to convince doctors of that...lol.  And, yep, know what it's like having to suffer pain each and every day....I've pretty much had pain in my life for over 45 years.  I had my first 3 spinal surgeries before I was 21...but my wonderful hubby married me, in spite of it...lol...and we had 2 lovely daughters, too.  He's been there with me through all the surgeries, too....God bless his pea pickin' heart...lol.
 
You can read about me in "meet the managers", under "Dee"...I go by either name.
 
Anyway, welcome to our site...and, don't believe Dan....actually I think the odds are more than 3 women to every male here...but guess among the 'active' ones, he may be correct.  But I don't like to tell him he's "correct" too often...lol.
 
Glad you're here....and hope to get to know you better as the days go by...and we learn more about one another.  It's amazing that on this site, we probably have told the members here more about ourselves than our spouses...lol.  Only people who suffer with chronic pain can truly understand what it's like 24/7...even though Ed is great with his support.  I'm on heavy doses of Oxycontin, with Actiq for breakthrough...take Zanaflex for muscle spasms....Ambien for sleep (which barely gives me 1-2 hrs. at a clip of sleep).  Thank God for my pain management doctor...he's been awesome with helping me get my pain levels under control!
 
NatzoSwift
"Dee"

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From: MSN NicknameGee24023688UKSent: 3/22/2007 10:51 PM
 Hi again Dee, I wrote a reply to you on the welcome message that Cyndy instigated a couple of days ago. Unfortunately a business E Mail got included with my reply, don't know how that happened, but at least it proves I don't just sit here all day writing messages . (Its becoming addictive) LOL.
You are so right about partners not quite understanding what is happening to you when you suffer so much pain. My wife often says she cannot understand my illness, she will say that one day its my legs and the next my back.
The only way for her to truly understand, would be for her to spend just 1 hour in my body.
I do not recognise any of the drugs you mention, we obviously have different names for them over here, but from the description of your problems, I suspect some of our medication is pretty similar.
 Its the morphine that worries me the most, 8 years ago I was taking just 20mg a day, now its 200mg and top ups of oral morph every 4 hours if needed. I did manage to cut down from 300mg which they had me on 2 years ago, but cannot take it any lower without suffering unacceptable pain levels. I am a 'Junkie'! LOL.
Will close for now, take care and I will be in touch for some advise after Monday's meeting with surgeons.
Gee

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From: MSN NicknameNatzoSwiftSent: 3/23/2007 1:18 PM
Gee:
Good luck at the neurosurgeon's office on Monday.  Hope all goes well for you...and remember to write down any questions you may have.  And make sure the surgeon answers all of them for you...don't let him get away with any non responses.
 
Right now I'm on 640 mg. of Oxycontin...which is probably enough to 'kill a horse'...but it's the only dosage that gives me some relief.  It doesn't give me total relief...but that's okay...at least it takes away most of the worst pain.  The Actiq is a fentanyl based "lollipop" that is used mainly for breakthrough cancer pain. Right now I've been using it for over 4 years...and all of a sudden, my insurance company, in their "wisdom" (???) has decided that it cannot be used for "breakthrough chronic pain"...so have refused to authorize it for me to use.  It's the only one that really gives me good relief for the breakthrough pain; so not sure what I will do when I cannot get it.  We're appealing the denial....but not sure how long that will take.  My pain doc is working on it for me...and with me...so will see what happens.
 
It really irks me when insurance companies can tell doctors HOW they can treat their patients...without knowing them...or a thing about what they have gone through!  They base their 'denial' on how much it costs...and the Actiq is VERY expensive...costs around $60 a pop, and I take 5 per day...so that adds up to a pretty penny for them!!
 
Oh well, I'll keep fighting until I have no more appeals left....and will see what I can do after that.  It just frosts me off that they can do that to patients.
 
Oh well, on that point...lol...have a good day!!!!
 
Dee

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