Honest Wisdom The Power of Not Knowing
There is wisdom in not knowing, and it is a wise
person who can say, "I don't know." For no one knows everything. There are many
types of wisdom - from intellectual to emotional to physical intelligence. Yet,
even deemed experts in their fields do not know all there is to know about
mathematics, yoga, literature, psychology, or art. It is a true master who
professes ignorance, for only an empty vessel can be filled.
There are
many things in life that we don't know, and there are many things we may have no
interest in finding out. There is freedom in saying "I don’t know." When we
admit that we don't know something, we can then open ourselves up to the
opportunity to learn. And there is power in that. We can’t possibly know
everything. And when we think we do, we limit ourselves from growing and
learning more than what we already do know. A person who can admit to not
knowing tends to be more intellectually and emotionally confident than someone
who pretends to know everything. They also tend to be more comfortable with who
they are and don’t feel the need to bluff or cover up any perceived ignorance.
People can actually end up appearing more foolish when they act as if they know
something that they don't.
We would be wise to respect people who freely
admit when they don't know something. They are being honest, with us and with
themselves. And we, too, should feel no shame in saying, "I don't know." In
doing so, we open ourselves up to the unknown. We can then discover what lies
beyond our current levels of understanding. It is the wise person in life that
answers questions with a question and inspires the pursuit of internal answers
with a funny face, a shrug, and a comical, "I don't know."
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