Honey,
I cannot know if these dreams are prophetic, only time can truly tell if they are for sure. And, there are many threads (stories) a dream can symbolise or tell. I will write what comes to mind what i feel may be a thread that directly relates to your life now.
the first one was as if it was night time and I was walking along the sand with a child
The night and the sand in this dream speaks to me of something within that is the unknown of time. Because there is a child with you at this time of the dream speaks to me of the of a light of understanding within that has yet been built upon....or a seeking that has yet to find its rest.
and there were several piers close together
This symbol speaks to me of the wisdom of seeing, noticing or appreicating "unity," those weve been given to go thru our time of unknown here in earth school (peers together looking over a vast waters of mysteries), including the appreciation for our own body of water we dwell in.
and they had boxes upon boxes stacked on them
The boxes speak to me as symbols of the overload of ideas and the seeking of mysteries of the unknown within this world of vast ideas.
and the water level was all the way up to the piers
This can symbolise the need for cleansing of the eyes (peer)and of judgments of what we see (sea). And also the feeling of too much info to process, as well as the feeling of being overtaken by the feeling of being overwhelmed in life.
it was like I was in some kinda total devastion
This may symbolise the letting go of all ideas, judgments, choices and beginning again, renewing your mind in true wisdom by seeing what truly is, not see our judgments of what is...and the letting go of the mysteries behind what is and just living "what is."
and then the child kept telling me everything was going to be alright
This speaks to me of the reassurance of the simplicity of insight by seeing and appreciating "what is" thru child like eyes, instead of always seeking the mystery behind it which over-loads the soul. Always looking for others motivation, whys and where is this heading will always lead to an overload of the spirit. Seeing thru the eyes of a child and taking life one moment at a time is true freedom.
all of a sudden I looked on the ground and my wedding ring was laying there with the diamond and diamond mount broken off of it and my family ring on my husbands side.
This may symbolise the need to renew your beliefs and thoughts about your own inner strength you have brought to and have gained thru your marriage as well as the strength that your husband has brought to you from his own family culture or ways of being that you have benefited from and may be overlooking or not fully appreicating as their effect together with your own strength in this life.
the one I had this moring it was of a coffin and someone trying to pry it open and i awoke out of that one
This speaks to me of awakening a feeling that has long been dead that has needed light to awaken it.
Hope this in some way brings light to your dreams,
birdy