Savonn,
Here is the interpretation I got from your dreams...but remember, dreams
have many aspects and this is only one possible interpretation.
I had a strange dream last
night I remember being with my boyfreind and his freinds and he smokes
marijuana, and I remember us being in the house I saw a bag of it and I hid it
in the couch under the pillow and went outside
First
off savonn, this part of the dream says to me that you are hiding some feeling
about yourself from yourself. The mj could be symbolic in this
dream of something you feel about your own self that you feel is illegal or
taboo, or not right with the authority figures of the world which is
symbolic of the authority figure aspect of self and possibly you have made
a judgment upon yourself about something you feel or think is wrong and so you
keep in hidden deep within you. It could be something your feeling
not "comfortable" and so you tend to "hide" these feelings even
though they want to come out in the open for "you" to see and to feel to
tend to them. Your bf's illegal mj could be the
symbol your dream master is using to get your attention of this hidden
feeling within that needs to come out in order to be integrated into your
comfort zone so that you can more easily live with your feelings above board so
not to hide things you think and feel as that draws only
situations in your world to get your own
feelings attention.
as I went outside it
was like a dark graveyard kind
This
aspect of your dream could be symbolic of saying to you that if you brought this
element of self (feelings) outside and actually spoke about them and felt
them integrating this hidden aspect of self fully out into your own eyes
and the world around you, that it could mean "death" in someway...and
ending or a closure, which is true, as when feelings, or aspects of self are
brought out into the open and fully integrated into the whole self they do go
thru a death of sorts...as they are no longer dead to self but now alive within
the whole aspect of being.
and there were traps
set up like red lines that if you cross them the police knew we were there and
others started saying watch where your walking...its a trap....and then I
started seeing the police all around outside of this tall fence.....and all I
remember saying is hide the weed ...hide the weed.....
This is your dreams way of saying that you are
vigilant to always keep this feeling or aspect of self under wraps or below the
surface of your feelings as there is a great fear of these
feelings coming to light because of the "fear" of consequences you
believe you will suffer (the graveyard) for this aspect of self coming to
light. The red lines could be symbolic of the feelings being centered
around anger or an emotional aspect of self.
and none of us could go back
in the house except for a female freind of my boyfreinds and I ran up to the
door and looked her in her face and said the same thing.....
Again,
this seems to be symbolic of your emotional aspect of self (female
friend) "knowing" this place within and only when you are feeling your
emotional self are you close to this feeling as your emotional self is the only
accepted friend of this aspect of self that you are keeping below the
surface.
and then I woke up... at
exactly 12:20am...and called my boyfreind...whom Ive been having some issues
with lately....he was dropping off his best freind a female from the
airport.......Im not sure what this dream means.....my dreams lately have been
about trusting, and believing in what I have in front of me is
real......now...........this is the problem
Savonn, sometimes its whats behind your
face (instead of what is front of you out in the open) that is what is
needed to be brought out in order to trust and believe in this aspect of self as
well. In order to find and trust your whole self, you cannot leave any
aspect of self hidden as it will just find its way to the surface in self
sabotaging or destructive ways, like being suspicious of others or seeing or
making "problems" where there arent any. Anything in the world out in
front of you that may resemble your own hidden aspects will jump off the
page of the world surrounding you and say "alert alert!!!" These alerts
outside of you going off are indications that you must first go inside of self
and make sure you are not the one that needs "in-lightened" first...then you
will be more able to handle the possible outside alert with more compassion and
wisdom as your hidden feelings will have been brought to light.
Then you will no longer be so easily knocked off course by making a
big something out of nothing. If it is truly a big something, it will show
itself soon enuff. In the meantime, you take care of you and keep your
balance within. Trust universe to take care of the rest.
my boyfreind and I have a great relationship except sexually he hasnt had
any energy....and its a problem for him because he says its never been an issue
in the past.....
As you say rightly savonn in the statement
above, its a problem for him...and that is something only he can address and
tend to. If he isnt feeling its a problem enuff to do something about it
(at this time)...then, it has to be left there. Make sure your concern for
him doesn't out weight his concern for himself or for yourself. That is
when his problem then begins to seep your energy.
with me its only an issue because I want to feel that closeness either
inside or outside......
I can understand your wanting to have a full
relationship going well in all areas...that's only natural. But, first
off, you are in a very new relationship...getting so hyped over whats eating you
isnt a good thing as this shows you do have "issues" that needs your
attention. You have to first take care of your own need within to feel the
closeness that others choose to give to you, outside of you, and be
satisfied with the ways and how others give. Notice what is being given
and appreciate it fully.
As you say, "his" problem is (has
become) an issue for you...this is the truth...this is an issue that is
buried somewhere in you (not him) and needs to come to your surface so
that this issue within will be resolved so not to pull on his issues (to
exacerbate them) so possibly to give him room to either resolve his
issue or you just learning what spirit has for you with living with his
issue, without you feeling "desperate" or whiney that everything has
to be "perfect" in your time or you are just not happy. Your dream
master wants you to know that your happiness comes from seeking always the
balance within and if you take careful care to do this, then outside
of you will all take care of itself in its time not yours.
I dont know what to tell him to make things better.....I tried talking to
him about it....and he says its not an ex, its not me hes totally turned on, he
doesnt know why and neither do I.........
He could have a medical problem or maybe its a
problem that has yet come to light. The main thing is to make sure you are
not addicted to the "stress" factor and always looking to make something out of
nothing. Do your inner work and allow others to do theirs. If
you think its serious enuff, suggest him seeing a Dr. and if he doesn't
want to, just leave it at that and see where universe brings you, once you have
made sure to take care of your own inner issues, and restore your
balance.
Hope this may help a bit...
Blessings,
birdy
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