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Hello, I had a dream last night me and my boyfreind had a baby. I was laying on the couch and had a baby girl laying on my chest..........and he came over and I said Babe this is our child or baby.............and I remember him smiling and being happy..............and I think he said her name was going to be Mary Maria or something like that...........LOL any insight on what this means......................lately weve had a bit of communication and trust issues.........which have been talked about and resolved......and we are coming up on our 6 mth anniversary...........Im thinking this could mean we are getting a fresh new beginning I dont know...but Im taking it as a positive.......... any thoughts??? |
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I agree savonn. I think your dream analysis sounds spot on. The baby girl could symbolize your emotional aspect for your boyfriend. And, it could also symbolize your own growing emotional stability. Maybe in times past, your emotional issues would have got blown out of proportion, and instead, now, you are feeling more stable and making better choices, emotionally.
Definitely sounds like growth.
Blessings,
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Birdy, thank you for responding...........Ive missed corresponding with you. Alot has been going on with my relationship...........its been very stressful and Ive tried to be an adult about the situation. Carlos my boyfreind has been in a slump for months now with no money............and its affected his moods and things hes been doing. Ive been trying to be there for him...........and be supportive and its been very hard................I love him and I know he loves me........but he hasnt been fun to be around............each time Ive tried to plan something positive to make him happy he doesnt want to do it........................so I dont know..................Ive just been praying for him........and myself to learn to love him in spite of whats going on with his life................. Ive never gone thru this with someone Ive only heard how money can cause problems in a relationship.............but I guess its an opportunity to allow yourself........to grow and love even more..........and have more compassion.......and forgiveness................................. I try to always think whats the spiritual thing to do here........and what lesson can I learn from this......................... so the dream could be evident of my efforts to be patient and understanding..........although its been stressful.................... If you have any advice for me................Im still young and learning my way..........we have been together 6 mths...............but it would help........... Love and Light
Savonn
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Savonn my friend....
The first thought that came to mind as I was reading your post is: YOU TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT YOU. There is a place for compassion and forgiveness...and, altho this is NOT a complete example for these qualities...they would run similar to these suituations;
Compassion, when someone is going thru painful times not of their own making (altho, a certain amount of compassion is always felt even for those who continually make the same mistakes, even knowingly). But, compassion for the person does not mean you allow them to bring you down with them or allow them to use you. It is important to always take care of yourself first so you will be in good health and spirit to help take care of others when they are in true need.
Forgiveness, when someone made "a" bad decision and you have been hurt and the person shows they are sorry by changing. Or when there is no other recourse to heal your own injuries when someone hurt you and there is no closure.
Tough love is not to be underestimated. It helps bring out the good qualities in others that they may be unaware they possess (even tho it may cause a ruckus for a bit). In a 6 month relationship...things should still be in their honeymoon stage (for the most part). For things to be going sour so quickly...maybe it's time for you to be making other arrangments, or at least appearing to do so, so that you can find out if the "other half" just needs a "boost/boot." It may be a bit painful for you and him, but, maybe the jolt is what he needs to wake up out of his slump...or possibly, it would give you a chance to see his true colors.
The main thing Savonn....ask confirmation from the universe before you make any major choices. This is how I do it: I say, if this is the right choice to make, give me peace with it and guide my body towards this way (causing me to "want" to do it and everything falls into place). If it is not the right choice for now, take the idea away so that I forget about it and feel no inclination in my body towards that choice....and allow obstacles to be set at every turn towards that way.
Always stay centered within your body....it always knows just what to do....trust it. Stress is not a good sign. Do whatever it takes to relieve the stress. It always means a change of action is needed. Make a choice in your mind, and see how your body feels in reaction to the choice being made and over with just by the visualization only. If the body feels relieved and the stress is lightened...it's a sign to begin makeing preparations toward that choice. If you feel even more stressed....it's a sign to hold on and not make that choice at that time. Trusting the body's signs is a good way to learn about choices, especially while you are young...practicing it will have you a sure fire system built by the time you are older.
Sending energy of blessings and guidance your way. No matter what choices you make....trust that they are right.
Blessings my friend,
birdy
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Birdy, thank you!!!  This weekend I had a great time with Carlos............and we talked alot about many things...............I have decided to stay in the relationship........but I have decided to make sure my needs are met first.............and that I am taken care of so that I can be strong for him. I decided that I need to always make sure my happiness isnt based on anything outside of myself...................... I have taken all your advice in and will make sure that I follow them...........Ive asked the Universe for guidance................and to lead me in the way I am to go.................and so things are great and Im at peace................... Thank you for always being there.............and giving me great advice......... Namaste  |
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