Some times when we have trouble expressing how we feel , we allow it to bottle up inside, this unfortually can come out in frustration and anger. Some times people are not even sure why they are angry. Try sitting down with your son and seeing if he can tell you whats going on, it may not work first time, but if you try to keep this door open for communication , in time he may feel ready to be able to talk. Through talking you both may be able to try and figure whats going on and causing your son to react in this way. Every action creates a reaction.

 

Blessinsg misty

 

 

Your welcome kentucy, you sound a loving mum who is doing her best for her children

Im totally wowed by how much of that list I am. I am troubled tho by the one on sheilding or not sheilding as to emotional response. I have been practicing daily sheilding for 4 years now, and I still have serious crying episodes. I have seen the exact opposite in my husband tho, I think he has a better grip on it then I do my anxeity and sob sessions.

 I'm  glad Myst that you took the time the other night after class to talk with me a bit, Im seriously considering counsling to get to the bottom of my trouble so I can move forward and live a bit "normally". Im thinking since I have accepted my gifts and are learning to use them, that if I am to use them to full potential and be worth anything as a reader I need to get to the bottom of my emotional problem.

 Also I see alot of these things in my daughter and she is only 6!

Thanks again Tess

Tesssa thats great, you really are making positive steps in your life, so give yourself credit for coming this far. I feel we are put through experiences to learn, how can we touch another heart or soul, unless we have at least some personally understanding ourselves through our own experiences. Two things will come from this, firstly and most importantly, healing for yourself, secondly once you have being through it and come out the other side, you wil have learnt many coping tools that you have picked up on the way. Through your experinces and working through it, you will have learn many tools that you in turn when ready will be able to pass onto others. Tessa set yourself achievable goals, small ones to start off with, work toward that goal and reach it. Then place another goal and another till you slowly feel yourself making slow but continuous steps forward. Take it slowly so that what you learn does not have to be repeated and know we wil be there to support and cheer you along in any way we can

 

What ever small part we can play, even if its just offering our friendship, know that we are here to listen and be a friend :)

 

Blessings Misty   

 

 

Isnt life funny, not only do we need to learn and understand for ourselves, we need to also learn to help guide our children and try to stay ahead of them for at least a few years, children these days are just to smart and growing up way too fast. Its a race just to keep up with them, i am glad people are gaining from these postings :)

 

Blessings Misty     

Alot of time for Indigo's and anger/depression it comes from not just within themselves but its from outside of them...in other words they dont understand their empathy and that can overload if we dont understand what it is say nothing about how to work with it and not against it:)....most indigo's have issues being in crowds because of that reason...our empathy is so strong that we 'pick up' everyone! else's stuff they bring /carry around with them.  And how stressfull is shopping around this time of the year?...ppl bring and leave alot of stress and anger in the lines while they are waiting ....alot of negative energy that we end up sifting and changing for the better.

Blessings of love and brightlight wonderful souls,

Undoubtedwolf