There are a large number of contacts between the planets in your chart and your husbands, so lot of activity and excitement and stimulation.  And, the ratio of the positive to the negative is almost 2:1.  This is good.

 

And, as I mentioned in an earlier post, there are lots of positive contacts between his Venus and your planets, so it seems clear there is a strong loving connection here.  Unfortunately, the  problem appears in his planets in your 12th house of the Past, and Family Karma.

 

His Sun is in your 12th house, and this would often mean that he could actually help you to better understand yourself, and to relate in a positive way to Life.  And since his Sun is sextile your Jupiter, which is an excellent aspect for harmonious relationships, one might expect his effect in your twelfth house to be positive.  Unfortunately, his Sun has negative aspects to both your Neptune and your Pluto.  The aspect to your Neptune is particularly challenging for that 12th house position.  He will, without meaning to, stir up in you some negative emotions, probably related (unconsciously) to your own childhood. 

This could be good, IF you were very aware of your own motivations.  But these can be subconscious, and very difficult to deal with, as any psychologist can tell you.

 

 

His Mercury is in your 12th house, which COULD be good for communication, and he could help you to deal with your emotions and past Karma, BUT, his Mercury has only challenging aspects - square your Moon, square your Venus, square your Midheaven and INC your Uranus.  So the result is confusion - not intentional deception, but a definite stirring up of old Karma in you.

 

Mercury square Moon.  A difficult aspect.  He might think you too emotional or irrational; you might think him too critical.    And the others are equally challenging.

 

I AM GOING TO SKIP ahead to Saturn.. Because it will just depress you to here this continued litany of challenges. 

 

His Saturn in your twelfth house COULD result in his helping to discipline your emotions and to understand your own subconscious impulses.  And you could have helped him gain (intuitively) in understanding how to succeed in the business world.  But --

 

With negative aspects, both of you could have a depressing effect on each other, and since his Saturn an equal number of negative and positive aspects, I will leave it for you to answer:  how did your relationship go?  Did you help each other, or depress each other?

 

 

Transiting Jupiter is crossing your fourth house of home this year.  This would usually be a very good time BUT Jupiter is square your ascendant, and this keeps you from seeing your situation correctly.  Jupiter is also square your Neptune, which adds to your confusion.  You are having a hard time seeing realistically. Fortunately, this square will end soon,

 

Transiting Saturn is square your Sun, and transiting Neptune is opposite your Moon. A really confusing time for you.  I will stop, because my point has been  made.  It IS possible for a couple to work through this kind of stuff .... but it does not sound as if you have done this.

 

Uranus, however, is transiting your tenth house, and conjunct Jupiter (the Lord of Fortune), which suggests some real opportunities for you in a career.  And this is why I advised you to focus on the area if your career.  In my opinion, Angel, until these transits pass, you will not be able to make sensible decisions about your relationships.

 

Sorry .... And blessings

 

Shantana