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The other nite when we went out for our "V" date and it was all boring was sort of because he ticked me off and then I wasn't really into it the date anymore. I was sitting there in the club and I looked over at him and said, " let's do something tonite". He grinned and asked me what? I told him," I'm going to go to the bathroom and on my way back you might find me sexy enough to stop and ask for my name and we go from there. How about it?" I winked and lipped my lips at him just to make sure that I wanted to really play this game to the fullest. (i've done this before and its'great for sex, but wanted Fettucini and I to play seeing as though he had told me when we met he never did this) He's looking at me w/his bedroom eyes and comes closer across the table and says," How about if I just told you fu** all the bullshit and you just let me take you outside and do you in the car?" I went flat. Flatline. I played it off along w/him and laughed. I will never ever do this again for him. NEVER!

I guess I'm not completely over it yet and especially cause I ain't said a word to him about how it turned me off, but now am really realizing that I'm sorta salty at him.

I know I'm supposed to open to him and tell him this, but having accustomed to my ways, in terms of sex, he knew I was being dead-serious and came back w/an answer like this. He knows when I'm talking pillow talk, to pls not reply back to me w/some nasty bar talk. There's a time and place for everything and I was trying my hardest to get the program and make the nite as best as possible seeing as though he went out of his way.

Sometimes, they just don't get it, do they Lynnie?

I don't even know him and I'm going to say he didn't mean mean to.

Hope you can let it go. Valentine's Day is just a another day... you can set your own up again.

you know sometimes men have jello for brains.

they just dont get that kinda talk can turn one off.

gosh just the other nite my hubs really turned me off. (another story)

dont they know we are like ovens we have to be warmed up .

never understood but they think and feel with different brains than we do

sorry your V day was a bust ......

I myself like to feel sparks and warmth ........not lets go do it.

sorta makes me feel like when my hubs does this its all about him. ya know

so where is the va-voom..........the romance..........the hubba -hubba that makes

your sparks light up ??

I sure know how ya feel .

seems this has been happening to me too

i guess i need to talk to my hubs about this but wondering if it would even

sink into that jello head

Yeah Peejay you're right. I know the sonofagun didn't mean it, but right now girlfriend I'm so trying to stay on top of satisfying him although he always tells me he can wait until I'm feeling better. So this is what really stung like a bee. There will be more special times for us like this in our future, but he better not be turning me off like this, or else this might become a serious issue for us.

TA, men can be so dumb at reading in between the lines sometimes and NOT ONLY MEN, but right now this is directed towards Fettucini and he's a man..... so that's my rationing this vent at "men". I need to have that fire TA and although I'm not able to put out tons of it like before I'm trying and I have the best excuse right now to, but I don't. So the least the lil' bald sucker is do is try and know when I'm serious about wanting to "play".

Thanks for you feedback ladies.

interesting to be sure

so, you wanted to "playrole"

and he did what he thought

he should do and you got ticked

cause he did it wrong.......

for who did he do it wrong?

guess I'm not getting it

It's ok Mr. because he really tried to make it special, but I was in a funk So I'll just shutup the next time he takes me thru to the Popeyes Chicken and hangs me weed from the back yard. LOL!

Ohhh sorry Sis Witch just now seen your post.

Yes this is exactly what I wanted to do. You know heat it up a little bit and act like he didn't know me and we met this nite. But instead he told me this and he blew it off and went back to listening to the music. I finally fessed up to him last weekend how it bugged me and he said he didn't get what I was trying to say and he thought I was just flirting w/me and wanted to respond w/a dirty answer.

So in the end, it didn't work out for neither of us cause I was sort of buzzed, tired and really let down and I knocked out. He didn't get no a** and I didn't get no satisfaction out of the date.

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