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| | | From: Charly (Original Message) | Sent: 2/21/2008 2:57 AM |
Hi, My name is Charly. On 3rd feb 08 lost my dad in UK. Then on 6th feb 08, I lost my husband here in USA. It is very hard, I feel very very upset because my husband could have gone to the hospital long time ago and got better, but he decided to keep drinking even though his liver was bad. He had pnemonia and a condition called scarsidosis. We were married for 11 yrs this yr it would be 12, I feel very upset and lost. We were best friends and soulmates. But he would not listen to me about anything, that makes me very mad. We could of had a great life. Charly. |
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Hi Charly, im so sorry to hear about your losses, nothing anyone says will make you feel any better right now, and you will go through many emotions, let nature take its course, grieve as its a cycle, and when you come through the other end, you will be able to carry on with your life, you will never forget them but will be able to think of them without the trauma you feel right now... heres a poem that might help you through this.....
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped away into the next room,
I am I and you are you;
Whatever we were to each other, That we still are.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used,
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we shared together.
Let my name ever be the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant,
It is the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well.
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I am sorry for you loss Charly my prayers are with you |
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charly im so sorry about your loose how old are you and where are you living mamthesonak | |
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