I cannot speak for all the ways that are practiced by the many tribes but I feel
in my heart this same thing applies to all the people if they listened to their elders
and medicine people.
I know in the lakota way. One might approach a medicine person and petition
them for a ceremony for help in some manner of conditions or state of health.
It is also told to them that after that ceremony is done, the one petitioning should,
within one year, petition for a woputa ceremony. That is one where thanks are
given to spirits help in the first ceremony. I have witnessed many times where
this isn't a high priority for most people but it is the completion of the "whole
ceremony", not just a part soon forgotten.
I have watched and checked back after some time and asked when that person
has completed the second phase and sadly, in many situations, that part was
neglected and not done. Not meant as a warning but I tried to keep track of
those people that received help and see how their lives continued. For those
that took this to heart and did as they were instructed, I seen a change take
place in their lives. For those that didn't do this. Their lives reverted back as
before and they complained how "it is so hard to walk this path."
Life might be difficult at times but when you acknowledge what you receive,
you slowly realize the lack of need for asking more....Even when others might see
the material aspects of life the same, they see the harmony and contentment
in that person's life. Hmmmmmmm wonder sometimes if many follow up and
watch this happen under these conditions?
You see people envy and wonder how another can be so content when their
lives may be in poverty relative to the material world, yet always have a smile
and good thoughts. This lesson is repeated so many times all around us and
one has only to think upon these things to be impressed how easy it seems to
be for some.
Another aspect of this is time being relative to events taking place. If we give
equal importance to good events as well as negative ones. We will find the
positive are so much greater than the negative ones. A famous ol codger that
gave the math formula of E=MC2 stated something I am not smart enough
to figure out what it means. But he mentioned something else that really stuck
in my mind. That the length of time one realizes that passes is relative to the
event. He gave the example of being aware of the length of time two people
in love are aware of. Where hours seem like minutes. He used a negative
experience of the same length of time and our awareness of it as being drug
out as an endless stretch of time.
If we think on this, we realize we receive far more than what is asked of us
to endure. It is only our own concepts of it that may cause it to appear as
a life of suffering.