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From: MSN NicknameTheButterflyJaniceSent: 8/20/2004 3:59 PM
(((((((((TirlessNetzer)))))))) First of all let me say ya are not whinning ya are just speeking ya feeling and that is something we need to get out before it eats us alive. As far as ya daughter being stronger than ya, it may seem that way when in fact she is not. She may just be in a numb state of mind. She will need ya and ya support, when the time comes to del and admit it. It's also normal to be torn between the 2 of them, when love it there. But ya are right ya need to do what is best for ya'll's life. It's a shame he won't get counceling for the both of ya hun, I would still encourge it as much as ya can without peeving him off. I am thinking and praying for ya and the family sweety.
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From: MSN Nicknamefiveboots1Sent: 8/21/2004 5:53 AM
((((((Netzer))))
 
You are not whining or rambling on.  Please don't feel that way, this is why we are here, to support each other through times like this. 
 
I was thinking when you said that your daughter is strong and she says she does not need counceling...is it possible she is putting up a front for your benefit so you don't worry about her ( her concern re: you) or that she is in denial.  She sounds like an awesome girl but abuse can scar and with your husband siding with the abuser, that doesn't help the situation. 
 
Netzer, you ARE a strong lady, i read your story and it takes strength to get through what you have, you are a nurse, and nursing isn't for whimps, nursing takes internal strength and a special person and you are that.  Don't sell yourself short.  You have an awesome daughter who has gained strength from you.  I don't believe your daughter is stronger than you
 
I know you are in a difficult situation, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers
 
(((hugs))))
 
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From: MSN NicknameCrash_mom2Sent: 8/22/2004 3:02 AM
((Netzer))....As everyone else has said, you are not rambling. You are just expressing your feelings that you may feel you cannot do at home or at work.
 
Why do you feel like you are losing it? Because she is your daughter and as a mother, we tend to take their pain and make it our own hoping that this will lesson the pain they may be feeling. KNowing that your daughter has been abused by a family member or a family friend is one of the hardest to follow. Add on top of that the fact that your husband does not believe her and sides with the friend is an even worse blow. My ex abused his nephew back in 98. It was a shock, a blow, and a major test of my morals and values. The child isn't even mine, but I took all of his pain as well as his families and made it my own. It didn't help any that both of my son's and his other nephew were all involved in one form of sexual abuse by this person. I worked third shift and everything happened in my house. I blamed myself for so long. Anyway, now I am rambling, but if this helps you feel better about how you feel knowing someone else felt the same as you do now then I am happy I rambled. You are in my thoughts.
 
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From: TirelessNetzerSent: 9/4/2004 10:08 AM
Thank you for your support. I have been isolating, and unable to answer. I even avoided work.  My daughter and I are both in therapy now and I had a medication adjustment so I can function again. I didn't have anyone to talk to about this so it meant a lot to pull up this screen and read your words of encouragement when I didn't have to energy or will to respond. Back to life now enough to answer and say thanks...
                     
 
 
 

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