Hi JubileeKat,
My heart hurt reading your post, you have been through so much and to have your D act the way she's acting on top of it.
My N/P is my youngest child, she turned 20 in April and has taken me to hell and back a few times. I have just returned from my trip there earlier this year, it started with her moving out Christmas day, wouldn't say what the problem was except to tell me I always hurt her.... then in March she got my oldest son on her bandwagon and she had me charsged and thrown in jail...my oldest son sat parked at the end of my street laughing as they put me in a police car, then the two of them tried to abduct my youngest son who is special needs.
Needless to say, after thousands of dollars in legal fees, having the charges thrown out of court, having to listen to all her lies at a peace bond hearing, it ending with the Judge putting a peace bond on her and her boyfriend for my safety I have cut all ties with her and my oldest son...what saddens me about having to do this is that my oldest son moved away and I have no idea where he is or where my two granddaughters are.....
On the bright side, I remarried in July after being widowed for ten years and life is grand.... I have moved on and much to my daughter's dismay I am happy....and I am happy without her in my life....
Take care and please keep posting, everyone here is on the same path and these are some of the most remarkable people I have ever had the honor of meeting.
I send you peace
Dancer |