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Hi Loopy, I think I ought to be honest here. When I first posted the offer to do readings, I knew that I wouldnt be doing a reading for the first person that asks me. I really didnt know why and still not fully understanding. I would like to give you a few things that may help. First, I want to extend my friendship to you. And speak to you as I would my own best friend. Anytime I get close to your energy I get this image of a mother who slaps the hand of a child for getting into something that they are not suppose to( or for any other reason). Its like I want to slap your hand, and say No. Im sorry if this comes harshly to you. Ive thought long and hard how I was gonna respond to you. And Im told that you can handle the honesty way better than beating around the bush so to speak. I also get that in doing so, your respect for me will be there, rather than if I just sugar coated everything. Im also getting that you know what Im talking about even if I dont. Gosh, this is making me nervous. Im pretty much told that you have your own abilities to know the "truth" you are so desparetly seeking. And everytime you come to one of us, you are in a sense not listening and when you dont get the message you want, the disappointment comes in. Trully all you want is confirmation. Its something I strive for and see in most others. Its human of us to be that way. So the next time you ask for a reading, ask yourself, are you seeking confirmation, or are you seeking an excuse for behaviours even you know deep down need to go into the trash. Trust yourself, dont judge yourself harshly and most of all, be honest to yourself. Accept the things you cannot change and believe you are one awesome human being. Start living it and you will be it. (did i boost your morale yet?) I suppose I did give a reading, but I so much like the idea of "talking" to a friend than the idea of giving a "reading". Thank you for giving me an opportunity to practice. (Do you know an Andy?) I am getting more, but started questioning myself so will end here. Angel Hugs Nesting |
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Ok I love it ,, i really understand the hand slappin n sayin no , n i do know why too ,, and as im writing this ,, i know my guide is smiling ,, and u being honest im the same way being honest n blunt ....and yes i saw the offer of gettin the readin n said what the heck go for it but i know what was going to be told bc ,, yes i pretty much answer my own question n analize it when i have a problem or anything what goes inside me head hehe..that is why most of the time i really dont ask for reading ,,,, and dissappointment of the message ,, i learn when a person come for help when someone is block of worry is better listening then givin answers n let the worrier asnwer there own questions of why n where it began n fine the solution ,, i let them talk , n i try to help in a way i dont answer it for them but they answer it ..so even tho i dont have nothing worryin me, i found out the way to always be happy n dont block myself from a problem, ,, i have learn alot from myself n others n if im confuse about something i have to understand it , in a way that my brain works ,, i have alot inside there i need to catch up hehe,,, so trust me i perfectly know what your sayin,, I as i go i insome ways too give reading to ppl outside chat n sometimes chat,, photo reading n other things ,,, so i know that i have grown lots lots more n so dam proud of me hehe ... thanks love it |
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Loopy,
Im glad I made an a connection. I was soooo worried. I have a tendancy to come across harsher than I think, and hurt feelings. I am getting better at it tho and I thank you for such positive feedback. Its not that Im new to "reading" people, done it my whole life. Its just when you do something so often its almost second nature, you dont know the process as much as you do the outcome. You just know to do it. Thats where I am. Learning how i work on the inside. And understanding it. And great thing, I dont feel like slapping ur hand anymore! LOL. It was the oddest thing.
Anyhoos, thank you again for the practice opportunity.
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