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Message 1 of 14 in Discussion

From:

¤ŜτϊĹĻ¤sŵèêŢ¤ŞûĝąŘ≈�?/nobr> (Original Message)

Sent: 10/8/2007 2:00 PM

.Hi all.

I shall start from the begining. Last wensday my 9 year old daughter was walking home from school with a friend.

As i approached them in the car a saw a girl aproach my daughter lean over and say some thing to her.

As i stoped my car the 3 of them looked at me the older girl ran of to a group of about 10 friends.

I undid my window as my daughter looked upset i sai9d to her wot did that girl say to you? she said

HAVE YOU LOST ANY WEIGHT YET??

My daughter is slightly over weight and gets teased quite alot. I told my daughter to wait with her freind while i drove round the corner and aproached the group of 12- 13 year olds .

I got out the car and aprouched the girl asking wot she had said to my daughter??? she then turned round and said its non of my f*cking busnes. I was realy angry so i drove round the corner picked my daughter and her friend up who knew were the girl lived. I knocked on parents door no answer

i went to the granparents who lived oppisit again no answer. So i thought i would go home and call the school of the older children as they were still in uniform. As i turned my car around a group of them aproached the car saying they had called the police so i said fine i will wait for them.

As i sat there one on the boys squrted water in my face from a drinking bottle i was so angry and went as if i was getting out my car they all ran of. I went home upset and shoked called ther school and spoke to the head master.

Next day a sister of the bully who said nasty thing to daughter said oh just so you know the police will be round today. so after picking daughter up from school we went strait to the police station. I explained wot had happend they told me an officer would be round as a complaint had been maid againt me

Now the fun bit

the police turned up and said an aligation had been made against me saying i had made racist remarks. I have never been raisist in my life my best friend is an indian lady. I told them my story the girls had said i thretand to burn there house and cars

am a single parent i have nothing to do with any of my naighbours i say hi and thats it i said to the police thats discusting they can call my daughter fat

and nothing is done they lied about wot happend and am left made to feel its my fault

The police lady said well the girl does not want to take it any further?????? i was like

my daughter was verbaly & imotionly assulted as i was with the verble language and the boy thowing water in my face and am left feeling the criminal.

I am so upset and have lost so much faith in mankind. I live with indian familys all around me and am now waiting to be attacked verbaly for sticking up for my daughter. I am stuck at home all day i caint aford to work (no qulifications) i am on incompacity so am not intiteled to get free courses. am stuck. I am now thinking wot should happen if my daughter comits suicide because of the bullying who will take the blame? am sorry for ranting just so upset any feed back would be most apreciated.

Joxxxxx

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Message 2 of 14 in Discussion

From:

goldstar1179

Sent: 10/8/2007 2:08 PM

Wow, not a good day. The angrier I am (helplessness), the sweeter I feel when I truly pray and ask for guidance and help. Love Gold

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Message 3 of 14 in Discussion

From:

¤ŜτϊĹĻ¤sŵèêŢ¤ŞûĝąŘ≈�?/nobr>

Sent: 10/8/2007 6:57 PM

Bless you gold .

Am so tired of asking for help

& guidence and feel so close to giving up.

Thank you for your input.

xxx

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Message 4 of 14 in Discussion

From: jenster

Sent: 10/11/2007 9:18 PM

aww hang in there sugar, kids can be so mean and cruel, and they have no idea the pain they can cause with hatefull words and insults. just reasure your beautiful daughter that she is just that. we come in all shapes and sizes, and each one of us is unique. just let her know you love her, and those kids dont feel very good about themselfs if they feel the need to pick on your daughter. i hope it all works out for u and your precious daughter luv jenster xo

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Message 5 of 14 in Discussion

From:

¤ŜτϊĹĻ¤sŵèêŢ¤ŞûĝąŘ≈�?/nobr>

Sent: 10/13/2007 12:18 AM

Awww thank you Jen.

I needed that and yes you are right hun. Im worrid am becoming very visious and angry.

I was supressed in my last relationship was always made to feel worthless. Infact most of my life because of wot i have been through i have had to tuffen up. Am so tierd of fighting and depressed with getting no wear i feel i have aged so much since loosing my sister 3 1/2 years ago. I am here at home most days on my own i have no friends and family round me been a single parent with money very tight i caint go out am 33 and a lost soal. I ask for guidence and help but it feels as thogh it never comes. Am sick of feeling so low

with christmas looming am stressing about gifts for my daughter will i ever be happy.? Bless you Jen for your kind words.

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Message 6 of 14 in Discussion

From:

BlueBell_One1

Sent: 10/13/2007 7:42 PM

Sugar hun , you and your daughter are beautiful , unique people , remember that always . No matter what you are going through, you are brave enough to come through it . Sounds hard , but is fact and you will be such a strong soul . Many of us have been through some devastating times , as you are at this time , and we will all tell you , you will come out stronger hun.

love

BlueBell xx

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Message 7 of 14 in Discussion

From:

sweet_suger_is_me

Sent: 10/15/2007 9:18 AM

Thank you BB.x Bless you.

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Message 8 of 14 in Discussion

From: Conchita

Sent: 10/22/2007 8:31 AM

Sugar,

Some kids can be really cruel and they think saying and doing mean things to others is fun and it makes them feel " better " about themselves because they feel so lowly about themselves in the first place or they have personal problems and they feel that taking it out on others will make themselves feel better about their own bad situations ( the dominoes effect).

Try not to let this situation get to you, hun. These kids are bullies. They have hurt both you and your daughter with their vicious words. What goes around comes around. These kids will get a taste of their own medicine, and they will be on the "receiving" end this time and they will know exactly how they made you and your daughter feel, firsthand.

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Message 9 of 14 in Discussion

From:

sweet_suger_is_me

Sent: 10/22/2007 2:28 PM

Thank you Conchita.xx

Bless you.

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Message 10 of 14 in Discussion

From:

«ºHeaven×Leighº»

Sent: 10/27/2007 2:40 AM

I am So sorry to hear what you are going through,.

It just goes to show what society today has turned into, I see things like this day in and day in the area I live an and am so desperate to get away from it.

Kids attitudes today are, "you can't do anything to me!" and in a way it is true! It drives me mad,. my car got keyed all the way across the bonnet, I know who did it but the police can not do anything about it!, it is a 10 year old kid and his group of mates, but the police special woman said even with proof there is nothing they can do about it because they are under 16!!!! so it basically gives them a license to do what they want. They feel they are untouchable.......

I agree with the prev posts, we all come in different shapes and sizes, and peer pressure today is so tough, not only on kids, but adults too.......

Sorry if you may think this sounds a bit cheesy, but its helped my 8 years oldm when he was being teased at school, ...... remind your daughter of song lyrics by christina Aguilera - Beautiful

" Every day is so wonderful
And suddenly, i saw debris
Now and then, I get insecure
From all the pain, I'm so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring me down
I am beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring me down
So don't you bring me down today

To all your friends, you're delirious
So consumed in all your doom
Trying hard to fill the emptiness
The piece is gone left the puzzle undone
That's the way it is

You are beautiful no matter what they say
Words can't bring you down
You are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring you down
Don't you bring me down today...

No matter what we do
(no matter what we do)
No matter what they say
(no matter what they say)
When the sun is shining through
Then the clouds won't stay

And everywhere we go
(everywhere we go)
The sun won't always shine
(sun won't always shine)
But tomorrow will find a way
All the other times

'cause we are beautiful no matter what they say
Yes, words won't bring us down, oh no
We are beautiful in every single way
Yes, words can't bring us down
Don't you bring me down today

Don't you bring me down today
Don't you bring me down today "

I hope you peace and a resultion to this problem, sending you healing prayers to you both

Heaven

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Message 11 of 14 in Discussion

From:

Pearlfisher7

Sent: 10/29/2007 4:09 PM

How awful, I am thinking of you, I hope this is resolved soon, the most important thing is to protect you daughter before the make her anorexic or bullimic.

love and light

Linda xx

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Message 12 of 14 in Discussion

From:

kitten250_

Sent: 10/30/2007 8:44 PM

ask all your online friends to help you with course's also ask the school teachers for help what are you looking for ( like for me its help with my GED course )

then Business ... how old is your doughter? have you asked the Indain Counscel for help each trib has one..

and most Important sit down with your Child ask God and Angels for help and guideance Speak it wright it and think it.

also TRY This POWER OF INTENTION TO THE GOOD LOVE AND GUIDEANCE

with much Love and Blessings kittenxxxxxxxxxxx

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Message 13 of 14 in Discussion

From:

¤ŜτϊĹĻ¤sŵèêŢ¤ŞûĝąŘ≈�?/nobr>

Sent: 11/6/2007 10:08 AM

Thank you

all for your kind words and support.

I love you all.