Dear Kell; I am so sorry for you. It would be nice if one of the boys turned out well. Do you have any other children? When we hook up with a partner (married or not), many of us are no naive....what is bad about the partner most surely show up in at least one child. My case as well as yours, I am lucky though...my son is a great guy, almost 14. I never saw the signs in him that I saw in my daughter. It kills you to see that this little child that you raised and loved and did everything for....has turned out like this. But....because we are mothers we think that they will change or are in complete denial. I am not with my daughter, when people say, "I hope that you can work things out with your daughter"....they are naive, because I know that she is a sociopath....I will never let my guard down, in fact I need to get rid of her ASAP. You tried to protect your younger son, but his genes were saying something else. How can you let go??well it will change you as a person//sorry I cannot say something better...we all want a child who loves us the way we loved them. |