Doofers, I'm so sorry to hear about the losses you have had. Sometimes it's hard to understand why a person would choose to leave this world on purpose. As an African American and Native American, I don't believe that there is a division when people hurt because of a loss of a loved one no matter who it is. There simply is no "race" when it comes to grief. I have recently lost a loved one myself. I know what it feels like. Ther simply are no words that will make you "feel" better about that loss. I pray that as time goes by you will only remember the great things and be able to laugh at the joy that was brought to you by these wonderful friends. God bless you. Hugs, Harambee |