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From: MSN NicknameAngelineRose  (Original Message)Sent: 6/26/2004 8:47 AM
 .......things can't get much worse.....they do!
The bloody cow bitch bag at work who seems to have it in for me is at it again! I'm so sensitive at the moment and she knows it and gave a list of complaints about me to my f grade sister last night. We talked it over and the sister seemed happy with my responses to what were either ridiculous or just petty things. I'm so glad i don't actually have to see this nurse who is complaining cos i would punch her lights out right now......i'm so angry!
I had a chat with the sister again this morning and said i have had enough .....and if something is not done soon i am considering taking this all to human resourses for the respect at work policy. This nurse finds pointing out any others mistakes a pleasure and instead of helping she will make a big issue out of nothing. I'm not the only one she has had a go at ......and her reputation preceeds her......but i have had enough! My G grade sister seems to hope it will all just go away .......but frankly i am made to feel like shite by this person and have had enough. I can do that well enough by myself thank you! I've not been quite my best of late i know but i am trying and surly that must count for something?
i'm having a huge glass of metaxa as i type .........oh i am getting sooooooooo drunk.....easy after a night shift!  
So there you have it........my vent for today!


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From: MSN Nickname««§murf»»©Sent: 6/26/2004 8:55 AM
Well i agree with you ang, why is this silly mooo not being looked into.  If they know she is complaining like she is, and it is all trivial, then it is her they should be having words with not you!!!!
 
You go girl and stick to ya guns!!!
Go glad the glass metaxa helped lovey   chinz!!!

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From: MSN Nickname»ÐÎzŽzŽzŽỷ«™Sent: 6/26/2004 10:12 AM
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm Metaxa .........
 
Ohhhhhh Ang , cant you just tell this bitch to sod offfffff.... but looking at it realistically , yes go and complain about her , maybe shes just got PMT all the time ?  

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From: MSN Nickname©jen©Sent: 6/26/2004 10:41 AM
Ang I would put in a complaint about her,you really dont need that kind of cr*p at work do you?!!
If others have a problem with her too surely they will back you up.
Good luck and I hope you get her sorted soon.
 
 
Or you could just punch her lights out!!

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From: MSN NicknamePoll_DollSent: 6/26/2004 11:49 AM
((((Hugs)))) for ya hun
what a nasty conseeted (sp) bitch, there's always one who likes to think they are superior to othersand no doubt have the least room to talk
I would complain about ehr for sure and make then see what the G grade is saying too as it cant go on you need back up not telling "oh lets brush it under the carpet, it'll go away" ffs you need help so go get some hun
Good Luck and glad the metaxa is helping
 
 
 
 
just hope ya see the witch in a quiet corridor you make sure u hit her real good when ya meet  her

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From: MSN NicknameConvictedDaydreamer11Sent: 6/26/2004 12:12 PM
Ang did typing this out make you feel a bit better? There's always
someone who will kick you when your down, its a fact of life
You meet them in all walks of life.
 
She obviously has issues of her own, and unfortunatley she seems to
be taking them out on you.
 
You so don't need this right now, and having spoken to your superiors
without sucess, I really don't think the problem is just going to go away
not if your still working with her.
 
I  think you need to take this to Human Resources, it needs to be
sorted out NOW!!!! It is after all their responsibilty to insure your happy
in your already stressful job.
 
Please Ang don't delay any further, this has been going on for some time
now, all the anger and resentment your feeling is going to go in-ward
if there's no release, and right now you need a little peace and harmony
don't you? 
 
I hope this helps  I don't want to advise you wrong, but in this instance the solution seems blatently obvious to me.
 
 
wish you luck
luv Day xxx

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From: MSN Nickname›Mòjó�?/nobr>Sent: 6/26/2004 2:40 PM
Oh Ang, (((((HUGS)))).  Just take confort in the fact that one day it will back fire on her...I'm a great believer in 'what goes around, comes around!'.
 
Hang in there, hun, we are here for you!

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From: MSN NicknameAngelineRoseSent: 6/26/2004 4:19 PM
Hi ......the metaxa helped alot this morning........drunk at 9am! lol
typing this out made me feel tonnes better and i'm hoping on sunday when i go in my F grade will have something positive to tell me once she has spoken to the G again.
Day......I have to go through the channels and then if i get no joy i can take it further off the ward. Yes this person has issues.....she thinks she can do and say what she wants and is perfect yet pull others to peices........well i for one am not going to just sit and take it. She knows she can be intimidating and uses that to her advantage.
It will get sorted I was just sooooooooooo angry this morning.
Thanks for listening all.
Ang

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From: MSN NicknameghaensSent: 6/27/2004 10:43 AM
((( Ang )))

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From: MSN NicknameConvictedDaydreamer11Sent: 6/27/2004 11:05 AM
Good for you Ang  let us know how you get on today, won't you?

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From: MSN NicknameAngelineRoseSent: 6/28/2004 5:34 PM
Right then. I had a chat with my F grade again and she seemed quite disalusioned that nothing would be done
It seems the F and G do not quite see the same thing happening on the ward right now. The G would like to see everyone "play" nicely and not have any problems. The F sees it as it is but is near enough being accused of hyping it up!
Anyway they had spoken and this morning I handed over and waited for her to mention something. But no ....so i asked her if she wanted to discuss it....she said she didn't have much to say ....but if i wanted to chat then ok.
So I took her in the back office and said i was very unhappy with the current situation and wanted it to stop. She said she is fed up with it too ......and thinks it is a personality clash......and that we need to sort it out because it is affecting the rest of the team!  She also said it only happens when myself and this other nurse are crossing over and the F or G are not on duty. I must say i haven't noticed that. she did make me feel like it was half my fault......and i wasn't too pleased with that as i don't think i have done anything to warrent this and yes i did say so!
She said she will speak to the other nurse involved and hopefully this will resolve. I'm off for 2 weeks now and don't see this other nurse for a month. I will see how it goes and if i get any more hassle i will take it off the ward.......and ask for a move.

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From: MSN NicknameAngelineRoseSent: 6/28/2004 5:36 PM
Oh that was as clear as mud!  It was the G grade i spoke to this morning!

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From: MSN NicknamePoll_DollSent: 6/28/2004 6:03 PM
Ang
Hang in there hun and definitely do not be the scapegoat for the other nurse uppermost do not let the G grade or F grade let it slip and make you feel you have nothing to gripe about if it affects you there is a problem and they have to address it
 
I advise you to keep a diary of events by all parties including yourself then if it comes to it you have got written guides for any meetings which will be held,(I was advised to keep on when I was victimised at work in my last job, it helped in the tribunal I had to go to over it) I was so badly treated I do not work anymore it affected me so badly amongst other things
 
When bullies see that they can intimidate they revel in it especially when they can see the management are frightened to speak against them too. You deserve better and have as much if not more right to be there as her. Huge hugs to you for an outcome to your satisfaction
Love Poll
xoxox
  

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From: MSN NicknameConvictedDaydreamer11Sent: 6/28/2004 6:15 PM
It'll be great to have a month off ang  see how things are when you
go back, then decide, in the meantime come lurk

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From: MSN Nickname›Mòjó�?/nobr>Sent: 6/28/2004 10:09 PM
Hope things get sorted soon, Ang.

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From: MSN NicknameJubileeukSent: 6/29/2004 9:27 PM
if you dont see her for a month Ang, hopefully now that you've brought it to their attention, they'll keep their eyes open and see what happens when you're not around. A woman like that wont be able to go a month with no one to pick on, so i would imagine when you go back there'll be plenty going on and it wont have involved you so it will have to be dealt with. Good luck hun and have a good rest

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