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if you find yourself attracted to women, then maybe lesbian or bisexual. you need to think about what your feeling

heya huni hope u eventually decided wat u wanted and i know im late replyin but i only jus managed to get ere to read it, i think u cud be bi or u cud actually b gay....jus decide wats right for u and go thru wit it mate gud luck xx

Wow though i was the only idiot going through such stuff..

Well im really attracted to females and it is driving me mad

Im also a ver y shy girl so im finding it extra hard to go forward with my life

me not knowing what i might or might not be is really driving my head in..

Im very depressed.:(

well..if it helps I just came out of the closet not too long ago myself. found myself attracted to gurls but didnt want to face the truth. but if u are attracted to gurls then you just might be lebian or bisexual. I found out I was when I met my gf and kissed her for the first time. She was the only person in my life to set off fireworks for me. no guy ever did that to me.not saying u should go out and kiss sum gurl or anything tho lol. but yeah just think hard about what ur feeling.

Thats just it i think im thinking to hard about it all

and i promise u i feel like im going to have nervous breakdown....

i have asked all the question i have to to ask one self i have asked what more do i do....

i just want to know so i can go forward with my life

Awwwwwww sorry to hear u feel like this Biggy. Mebbe you just need to take a step back at the moment to lift some of the stress and let things settle. Loads of us on here have been late bloomers or have been confused. Just take things one small step at a time and at the moment concentrate on looking after you. Everything will fall into place when you are feeling more able to deal with it.

Biggy hun, I hope these replies are helping. Fluffa is so right saying take one step at a time. When we feel confused, unsure, then the whole world seems fragile around us, but slowly things will come into place..you'll build yourself a rock. Start as you are by coming on here, try going into the chat room & exploring your feelings by getting to know others on this site. When i realised my sexuality aged 39(!), i thought i'd never meet another lesbian, but i joined this group so that i didn't feel alone. 3 years later, I have made the best friends i've ever had, found happiness. We're here to support you,

Pooks.

Just been reading replies to you which have all been good and also reading your thoughts too..

I'm not one for the advice here but would like to say to you..

..just don't rush things, it'll happen when it's ready..don't look for labels,be yourself.

I know I don't know you but somewhere you'll find a lifebelt..and find dry land ( something that was told to me.....

take lots of care biggyhun1

just keep doing wot ur doing now - come in here and talk to us - i dont know much about them myself but, mebbe it would help you to talk to a lesbian & gay switchboard - i now i said it in my earlier message but it really is one small step at at time

Gd luck with that Biggy. If you need help with the phone number, click on LGB switchboard numbers under help and advice on the left hand column down the side of the message boards.

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