we want the chat room to be fun for everyone, so take a moment to read this page.
the same rules apply to the chat room, that apply to the rest of the group.
please treat others with the respect you expect to be treated with
no bad, sexual, or offensive language.
no links to adult sites to be posted
be polite and friendly, no arguing.
do not ask members to 'cyber' or trade nude pictures. we are not an adult site, our members enter the room to chat!
remember your manners, some members may not want to be bothered by 'whisper'.
be considerate to new members. it can be daunting on entering a room full of people who already know one another.
a few helpful tips for chatting
as managers, we can't controll what goes on in whisper. if you don't want others to whisper you, you can turn this option off in 'chat options'.
if another member does bother you, you can 'block' them by 'right clicking' on thier name and selecting 'ignore'. if there's a manager in the room, please tell them you've done this, so they can keep an eye on that person.
please keep arguments out of the room, or both parties will be asked to leave, we are not there to referee or judge disputes.
if someone goads or picks a fight, use the methods above to block or ignore them, then send us the chat. we can easily deal with someone who we have proof has behaved badly, but if you retaliate and argue back, then you have both broken rules, and we have to treat both parties the same.
if you are worried by someones topic of conversation, (in the past, members have whispered that they are male, or spoken innapropriately about childeren) copy and paste the conversation into a 'contact the managers' email and send it to us, or send it to me. please do not attempt to change it in any way, the 'chat' font changes and we can tell.. we may not always ban when this happens, depending on the situation, but we will have a record if further problems occur.
we have to have proof before we can act. it's not about whether we believe your word or not, it's about making one set of rules for everyone. if we take a trusted members word that someone has done something wrong, and ban them, then if someone comes along and claims you have broken the rules, then we have to take thier word and act on it.
the managers are there to help, so approach one of us if you need us. but we can't act on clashes of personality, and we can't take sides. so keep arguments and disputes out of the room.
If you are in the room most nights and enjoy the chat and atmosphere, please help maintain that. If there's no manager around and someone enters causing trouble, asking for cyber, generaly breaking the rules, don't be baited into a slanging match, we can't take sides on what ends up in just another argument. Calmly tell the troublesome person that they are breaking the rules and that you would rather they left if they continue to act in such a manner. Then copy and paste the whole chat window into an email, or 'email the managers' page, and send it to us. If we have proof of someone breaking rules we can ban them, and so keep this stuff out of 'your' chat room. However, if someone comes in causing trouble, asking for cyber, rule breaking, and everyone starts shouting and arguing with them, all we have is one huge argument, and so everyone is breaking the rules, and we can't pick out single people to be banned, and so it's likely it will happen again and again. So remember, if someone is disrupting your chat, your chat room, remain calm and polite. It's your room too, help keep it clean, and free of trouble.
you may find within the room a chat bot.
'ltil-chat-bot' this is there to monitor, and store the sessions incase of problems, and can be refered to if need be. The bot will not effect your chat in any way.
click here to enter the chat room
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