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i have broke up with my g.friend of 3yrs and she wont leave me alone as much as me her,we were rowing and were on a break then she an i were about to sort out when she broke it off,but she keeps mailing and texting me sending me mixed msgs,im so confused and heartbroken as i feel inside by thins she says she wants me still,i mean i know she does shes said but she is scared of the rows somethings stopping her and stopping me goin round to talk to her like she wants me to do..to tell me her feelings why she is goin through shit in her life that makes her down etc but she cant understand how im feeling i love her still and she loves me im sure but i cant just pop over for a cosy cup of tea,she says she cant just rush back in on basis of misunderstandings and problems but she does wana see me..im so wary though,she says she doesnt know how she will feel when she sees me when our eyes meet as she called it,but she says shes willing to try but then when i asked her in a text she said she doesnt want things to work as b4,so i told her whats the point then she came running again asking to see me.she said i meant everything to here,if i hadnt of not seen her like she has asked b4 xmas we would be together now,i was wrapped up in my hurt at the time of the break b4 xmas,so refused to see her and thought she was about her own problems from the neg emails she sent me.Now i regret it all now not seeing her ,cos she broke us off,but expects me to see her as we have more than most ppl have,we built up a friendship but how can that be now when she wont work it out with me if it was so solid why didnt it work? we both gave up i guess but i know when our eyes meet we will still love one another i know it b4 i do it! the love and that never went ..or the chemistry just rows can ruin things let me tell you out there ppl who are rowing with partners ,dont let it ruin you. not sure what to do,dont want to let time slip away but im scared seeing her in a way..she keeps saying she dont wana full on thing but then she says she dont want sex or to use methen she sent me email other day saying she will try and this and that..and i know what will happen,my mate thinks we will spark it uo agen but i dont want to feel vulnerable the next day if she says what she means then agen shes also trying her best to see me and text etc! i miss her so much and she says she misses me... what am i gona do?! xx |
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Mysteriusredhead1
Sorry to hear of such pain ,reading your posting brought back to mind , some sadness that I went threw in my past . I know this is not what you want to hear at this time, but it is all you can do right now, that is to give it time. Go slowly take it one day at a time, if it was destined to be, it will be. I know in my case after trying to work things out, it was I that ended it. For even though we patched things up it still was not the same as it once was. Their was always the memories of the pain and the fear of it happing again.
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| | From:  Fluffa3 | Sent: 1/26/2006 9:07 PM |
Hi Red I really feel for you on this one and I agree with Foxy it's very much a one day at a time thing. Sometimes tho' however much we love somebody and they love us in return, it just isn't possible to make a situation work however hard we try. |
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if your on a break then why is she still texting you ? who broke it off her ? reads like she broke it off... to be honest with yo she is playing mind games with you, which is never good for the other person on the other side :(. she keeps saying she dont wana full on thing do you want a full on thing ? maybe this girl aint the one hunnie .... take a clean break if its ment to be then you will be together if it aint whats the poing in you both playing with each others minds via email and texts. take a break and move on xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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cos shes got alot on with family and studies ,she had a breakdown a few motnhs agodues to stress,she said other night on messenger she misses us and what we had ,and when she needs me most im not there,she thinks the rows were what broke us apart and i do too,we was wrapped up in our own worries an stresses but now we are considering things again we are talking again like we used to,thats what broke us we stopped talking and liking one another,we are ok at mo,shes saying shes sorry for things shes said and she regrets arguing. We are gonn chat later again and she says she wants a rel but not to get too emotionally involved right now,but i think shes scared cos she is showing all the signs she misses what we had..and she said to me that if we dont argue she wants a full rel..minus rows,and she said im in her thoughts always. we will see its been 3 yr nearly and we still have feelings she dont want to lose me and vice versa all can do is take one day at a time,she isunder alot of stress with family too whereas mine are chilled..her little sis is having a baby too soon so adds to the stress.. thanks for your replys x |
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