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| | From: pooks0 | Sent: 2/13/2006 10:19 AM |
Awwww, yorky hun, its no wonder you're feeling like you do .You're holding too many things together at once which are bringing you down. Each one is massive in itself. Each one would cause anyone to feel down. Life often seems to do this to people..my own view is that we grow stronger through it, but getting there requires help from those we love. It sounds like someone you love is adding to your problems, does she realise how this is affecting you? It sounds simple,& I know it often isn't atall,hun, but we often think our partner knows or should know exactly how we're feeling. this happens to so many that they feel they are being compromised by a partner over their children or the other way round. It's so tough as ,for me, a partner is with you to help you through life as you do them, not always to agree with you, but at the end of the day to support you. Why does she not get on with your daughter( I dont mean for you to answer that here...just asking)? Are there things that could be discussed to help both sides get to a happier place? Again ,with your job,have you talked to your boss, can you change how its making you feel? Could you be looking for another job if this really isn't the job you want & need? Mostly, I just want to offer a big hug, to say, when things are getting you down, there is always an up. Hope things start to come good for you. Take time to think, to be good to yourself, to start looking for the things that make you happy, in small doses first if that helps. And, above all, surround yourself as much as possible with people/things/thoughts that make you feel good. We're all here for you. Take care,Pooks.x |
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