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| | From:  Casi67 (Original Message) | Sent: 5/25/2005 1:44 AM |
Looking for bi femmes to chat to & get to know. Women on the same wave length who aren't sitting in judgement and who are open to talking about there situation & want a shoulder & an ear  I'm happy to chat to anyone who has an open heart & open mind Thanks for taking the time to read this & feel free to look at my profile & email Hugs Caritia x |
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| | | From: Chimera | Sent: 5/25/2005 7:30 PM |
Hi there Caritia,
If only you knew how long I've been waiting for someone to come up with this subject.
It seem's almost impossible sometimes to get a logical and perceptive debate on being feminine and bi-sexual seems literally like your attacked from all sides.
My personal experience is that it's perhaps better to leave people with their own perceptions.
Personally I'm not a man hater and I'm not looking to jump anything in a skirt or jeans. I think the people from the 'scene' labour under the illusion that we are just easily pleased, undemanding and possibly of lose morals. Well I don't know about you but non of the above applys too me or most people I know in the same position.
Thanks for stimulating an intelligent debate we need more of it, keep up the good work.
chimera (email: [email protected] |
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You are who you are no matter what your sexual orientation is. Whats the difference in someones personality if your either straight , bi or gay ? You get good people , bad people , rude people, homophobic people and all sorts no matter where you look. chimera you have posted "It seem's almost impossible sometimes to get a logical and perceptive debate on being feminine and bi-sexual seems literally like your attacked from all sides." are you now saying all lesbians look down their noses at bi`s ? Thats utter trash, i have a few bi friends and i never sit in judgement on any of them and they dont sit in judgement on me. You are who you are no matter who you sleep with. |
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| | | From: Casi67 | Sent: 5/31/2005 12:36 PM |
Chimera & Dizzy, Thank you for writing. I didn't start this topic to start a confrontation, but I have found it difficult to find women who are willing to be honest & open, in who they are & happy in there sexuality. For myself I'm bi, but I'm happy to talk to anyone, but find women stand in judgement when they find out I am married also. I have had 3 gf's since I have been married & my husband has met everyone of them & never slept with them. I'm not under any pressure from him & nor have my gfs ever been. I love him deeply & the feelings are reciprocated. I'm looking to have open disscussions about what & why women hide - some of the answers I know, some I don't, but I know we all have choices & I hope in me opening a discussion & being willing to talk about myself others will feel they can talk too Hugs Caritia |
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Hi Caritia, You ask why do women hide. Well I can only talk about what I know... which isn't a lot !!! I am married and love my hubby very much. I have two kids who to me have the right to have two parents bring them up. So yea over the last few years I have become more and more interested in women.... and the feelings I have are certainly not going away, but are in fact getting stronger all the time. I think I hide what I think for many reasons, firstly because nothing must ever come in the way of my marrage and my family's life. And I wonder what any women I meet actually thinks about that. They must think, "have cake and eat" it kind of stuff, "best of both worlds", "greedy".... But it is none of these things. When I got married I was completely committed and that has not changed. But what has changed is the way that I look and feel about women. Is that my fault.... or the fault of my hubby ..... or the fault of my kids ... or none of the above !!! So basically I hide what I think cause I am chicken !!! lol wifie |
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ok I will be honest here too .. I had messed about with a few girls when I was growing up and was very attracted to girls , didnt like going swimming or PE at school because I was scared I would get cought looking, my parents are not homophobic or racist or anything like that but , shall I say , from the "old" school .No divorce , No same sex relationships , no mixed marriages etc. and I felt like a complete failier .. I couldnt understand why I was not like the way I was brought up so when I met a fantastic man at the age of 16 I held on to him . He had everything my parents wanted , he was 25 but the age didnt matter because he was a bread winner , suited and plenty of money and came from a very respectable family . We have been together over 16 years and have 3 lovely children , it is the life that I chose because I was scared of being rejected. Thats nobody fault . I am not ashamed of who I am , my husband knows everything and so do a few friends but my parents and my children dont, and I dont feel that it would achieve anything to know . My kids know I have an open mind and would love and accept them no matter what all I want for them is to be happy and to me thats all they need to know. If I was no longger with my hubby and chose to have a female relationship then I would be open about it ( I think ) but I dont want to leave my hubby so whats the point in telling them. As I said to my gay male friend , would your brother tell his parents what he does in bed with his girlfriend !! .. |
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To each thier own...
SnB
"The older we get, the less
concerned
we are about appearance.."
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great message bubbly thanx x |
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It's all state of mind really. |
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