Hi
Im new to this group but my partner left along with her 10 yr old daughter just before Christmas. We had been together for 5 years. I know its early days but she has said she wants nothing to do with me. I am allowed no contact.
You may ask what did I do but frankly I dont honestly know. She had a different agenda I guess. and it just seems its the only way she can handle the split right now, but in the meantime Ive not been allowed to see the little girl or even give her the Christmas presents I have for her.
Christmas was just hell !
Its breaking my heart but she is oblivious to how much I am hurting right now because she has a real downer on me and obviously has her own issues.
The other problem is that I dont know what is being said to our little girl about me either and that hurts too.
I love them both so much, even tho so much water has now passed under the bridge and I have begged to remain friends, Ive even had to do that via her sister . The relationship breakdown is one thing, I can handle that but not being allowed any part in her daughters life is more than i can bear at times.
soul
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