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| | From: 1rubyred2 (Original Message) | Sent: 11/16/2004 5:57 AM |
i am so upset, my mother will never speak to me again, i gave her a diamond ring, and she gave it to my daughter yesterday to give back to me, she says i live a great lesbian life, because she is against me for being one, and it hurts me, to think that i will ever speak to her again, i have tried so hard with her to keep our differents apart, and tried to get along with her, and she calls me down so bad for it, i keep telling her i can,t be what society wants me to be, i have to be who i really am. |
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HI,RUBY.I READ YOUR POST AND MY HEART WENT OUT TO YOU. OF ALL THE PEOPLE WE EXPECT TO HAVE IN OUR CORNER,I GUESS OUR MOTHER'S WOULD BE THE FIRST ONE,RIGHT? THIS IS WHY I STILL HAVEN'T TOLD MY MOTHER ABOUT ME,AND MY GIRLFRIEND(AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER NEARLY 4 YEARS!).I AM SO AFRAID OF LOSING HER,BECAUSE I REALLY DON'T THINK SHE WILL ACCEPT THE REAL ME.I'M 44,WAS MARRIED FOR 19 YEARS,3 CHILDREN,1 GRAND-DAUGHTER,SO I SUPPOSE IT MIGHT LOOK BIZARRE FOR A WOMAN TO GO FROM ONE LIFESTYLE TO ANOTHER. BUT SOMETIMES,IT REALLY TAKES THAT LONG AND ALL THOSE TRIALS AND TRIBULATIONS TO SHAKE US UP AND MAKE US REALIZE WHO WE ARE. I WISH YOU LUCK AND LOVE. MsLUSHUS(Julie,xx)
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i know the feeling... my mom gave me the open doors lecture then didn't speak to me for 4 years... she would only ask me to do things around the house...
when i left home the beginning of this year she actually started talking to me again.
now she says that regardless of my sexuality she still loves me... sometimes i don't believe that because of the four year gap...
i wish you all the best though and I'm sure the group will be there for you...
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HI JULIE, THANK YOU FOR YOUR EMAIL, MY MOTHER WILL NEVER ACCEPT ME FOR WHO I AM, AND THAT,S OK, I WILL JUST HAVE TO LIVE WITH THAT,I WAS WITH A MAN FOR 26 YEARS, HE KNEW I WAS A LESBIAN,I CAME OUT TO HIM 14 YRS AGO, ON DEC.28 TH ,IT WILL BE TWO YEARS SINCE HE PASSED AWAY FROM ALS, HE,S MY MALE SOULMATE, I MISS HIM AND LOVE HIM DEARLY,I LOOKED AFTER HIM THE LAST YEAR OF HIS LIFE, IT WAS,NT EASY, AS I TOO AM ON DISSABILITY, HE WAS 6'5", WEIGHTED 275 LBS, A BIG PART OF ME DIED, WHEN HE DIED, I,M HAVING A HARD TIME GOING ON, I TRY TO STAY STRESS FREE, ANS STAY POSIYIVE,I LIVE FOR MY DAUGHTER GRANDDAUGHTER AND MY GRANDBABY WHO IS ON THE WAY, I HAVE JOINED THESE SITES ,BECAUSE I NEED THE COMFORT OF OTHER WOMEN TO HELP ME GO ON.
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HEY! YOU CAN COUNT ON YOUR FRIENDS HERE!! YOU CAN E-MAIL ME ANY TIME,FOR WHATEVER REASON,AND I'LL GET BACK TO YOU AS SOON AS I CAN. WE ALL NEED SUPPORT,DON'T BE AFRAID TO ASK!
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thank you, you are very kind |
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