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Angry, why do 16 year old girls think they know everything ??? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr |
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They do know everything dont they??.... Well mine seems to think she does. I find the best thing to do is to agree with them, she gets shocked at that..... then let them learn themselves that it wasnt right at all. They also tend to deny everything too.... "It wasnt me" when obviously it was. Maybe we should swap notes ladies... |
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HMMM...A UNITED FRONT .. MOTHERS COLLECTIVE AGAINST TEEN DAUGHTERS... I LIKE IT!! |
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She moved out yesterday, short and sweet of it is ( can tell you now Ive calmed down, there would have been too many f**** in it yesterday lol) Over the last few months she has had thousands of me, I top her phone £15 a time, I give her £10 a wk for her fags and what nots, I paid for her to go on holiday with her boyfriend, I paid for her new hairdo £60, I bought her a whole new wardrobe of clothes and I have just gutted her bedroom and paid £1000 for a new room for her, but I dont care about, Im a terrible mother, I dont do anything for her, I only feed her,and her boyfriend, clothe her, and just about do everything else for her, yet she talks to me like something she wiped off the bottom of her shoe, She is also not allowed in school anymore because she had her eyebrow pierced and its against school policy, so they told her take it out and she refused, so yesterday I threw her out ( something else she has to throw in my face now) She took all her stuff down to her boyfriends, then late last nite she posted a letter through the door, you know, all crawly bum lick, Lucky Ive got any hair left Hugs Chez lol xxxxx |
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Hi Chez, I'm sorry that things have been so difficult with your daugther. Hugs Jazzy |
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| | From: xsmootx | Sent: 5/10/2005 11:33 AM |
Just to say we aren't all bad? I'm 19 and me & my mum get on great? Tori xxx |
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Oh hun, you should have said! Still, she has probably realised that you are a good mum after all and she knows which side her bread is buttered. Teens eh? Keep strong honey, a big hug to you babe xxx |
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HANG IN THERE,CHEZ. IF YOU CHECK OUT MY POSTS IN THE INTRODUCTIONS,YOU'LL SEE MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY ELDEST WASN'T EXACTLY A WALK IN THE PARK SHE WALKED OUT AT AGED 15 FOLLOWING A VERY VIOLENT EPISODE BETWEEN ME,HER AND HER DAD. SHE BEAT ME(I DID HIT HER,I'M ASHAMED TO SAY,BUT I WAS MINDFUL OF THE FACT THAT SHE WAS POSSIBLY PREGNANT-WHICH SHE WAS),SHE GAVE HER DAD A BLACK EYE,AND THE POLICE AND SOCIAL SERVICES SAID WE HAD TO LET HER GO,AS SHE HAD CHOSEN TO LIVE WITH HER BF'S FAMILY(HE WAS IN PRISON AT THE TIME,AND HIS FAMILY IS MADE UP OF PETTY THIEVES AND DRUG DEALERS). THREE YEARS DOWN THE LINE,SHE COULDN'T BE A MORE WONDERFUL DAUGHTER. I LOVE HER TO BITS,AND HER DAUGHTER,TOO. WE HAVE ALL HAD SOME REALLY SCARY,ROCKY MOMENTS,BUT WE HAVE LEARNED A LOT FROM IT. DON'T DESPAIR. ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU,CHEZ (PS...TORI,I'M 44,AND HAVEN'T TOLD MY MOTHER I'M A LESBIAN!!) |
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Hi Cherry I know what teenagers can be like and most will treat their parents like something they have walked in its a different generation sad to say yet when things go wrong who do they run to first.. She will change as she gets older and it isnt going to be easy to get close again but eventually it will happen... It also goes to show no matter what we spend or do for our kids its never enough they is some good kids out their I myself have 2 out of 4 they are all different we will always love them no matter what they do and you never know if she stays away for a while things might get sorted easier .. I remember when my son left home to move to stoke it broke my heart I love the peace these days though Take Care it will work out Hugs Susyxxx |
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lol and it doesn't stop at 16, 17, or 18 lol our lisa has actually admitted that she should listen to me she's admitted that i'm always right she's actually thanked me for grounding her but she still doesn't listen to me today...
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| | From: Fluffa3 | Sent: 5/11/2005 5:44 AM |
aaaawwwww Chez - the joys of parenting - lol. At least you're still communicating so that's good. Mine are 10 (nearly 11) and 13 - both girls. So far, the most I have to worry about is a whingy whiney voice and whether or not it's bedtime - sure it will all change tho'. A friend of mine who has a daughter the same age as my eldest recently found out that her daughter was smoking, drinking and had taken coke 3 times. Now that's scary. Sending you big fluffy hugs |
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Oh no I have got all this to come quite a few years away yet I know but you've managed to scare the living daylights outta me!!!! lol j/k I just hope that when my daughter reaches that age I cope as well as you lovely ladies. Sonia |
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You will do Fun Lovedup, I just never realized that my daughter could be pre-menstral 28 days a month Hugs Chez xxxxx |
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OMG this sounds worse and worse lol just glad she's only 5 lol. I'm sure there will be fun times too (she says shaking) lol. I just hope she is nothing like me at that age...............even half as bad actually otherwise I'll be running around the country trying to find her lmao. |
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hey, im not wanting to depress u all but my little brother is even more a handful now than he was when he was a teenager. he wasnt even an easy teenager! he is now 21. for what its worth im 22 (23 in june) and im a little angel, nearly always have been (appart from when i was a baby) |
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