Hey Hazel..
Can't help with a site im afraid but if you cant find a lot of anything why dont you start your own?..
I'm in Lincolnshire and started mine just before Xmas, i now have over 20 members... *good for such an area*, regular chats, and upcoming meetings.
And believe me MSN make it so easy to build even 'I' made sense of it....lol...
Just a thought...
Luv Sarah xXx