I think i deleted the bday thread , where someone posted up a link to take you to an outside birthday web site. There was 2 links posted in the end.
If you have the red star feature on your names then everything they gets posted will go to your inbox. Reguardless if we delete if after its been posted or not.
The best way to avoid this is to remove the feature or recieving email and posts to your inbox.
Go to members tools , Then email settings and then you need to click Message and read them on the web !!! save and you should not get anymore posts going into your inbox.
I also consider posting such links as the birthday web sites a form of spamming....... collecting email adresses.