Love Readings:

Why are love readings so hard for most readers? People are very emotional when it comes to love or lack there of.  There is alot of emotion involved and most of the time we want to be able to "help" them. Love readings are a big part of what we do and a Very important part. I used to say that I dont do love readings until I realized that all readings ARE love readings.

Each love we have has taugh us a lesson, some teach us many lessons. We grow from each experience, it helps define who we and how we love, it defines what we seek in another.  To want a "Soul Mate" is great, but I would like to share my perspective on how Love works:  Each person we love is who we needed to love and with them comes the lesson we need to learn in that relationship.  Each are necessary .... could any of you have gone from your first boyfriend/girlfriend at say 13 to the relationship that lasts a lifetime ?  So you see, the love we feel wether it is forever or not is necessary.  You dont go from kindergarden to College.  You love who you love so that you are ready to love "the one" when its time. So when I'm asked .... should I keep dating this guy... is he the "one":  If your happy, dont walk away because he isnt "your soul mate" stay and learn so you know your soul mate when its time, so your ready.  So yes, this is the one, the one you're to be with at this moment.  

Those are hard questions but people need the answers, they need to know we all get lonely and that for every heart break they suffer that pain allows them to appreciate  deep love. I always tell them when their heart is broken; that for all the pain they feel now they will feel the next love that much deeper. (IF they learn from it. Some make the same mistakes over and over, but that is a different reading all together).

All I see in the "love readings" is.... GIVE ME HOPE !  Everyone feels unworthy from time to time and in a bad relationship .... at the end it makes us feel like no one will love us again.  Hope is sooooo important, look for beauty in the person tell them you know how it feels to love so deeply.  Talk to them about it, tell them they need to heal and you know what they are going thru. Thats all they really want, to know that someone else has been there... its not just them. I personally believe psychics are Sent the readings, to to learn and receive from sharing the reading.

Blessings to you                                                                              -      intense female