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Bi-Sexual Board : WHAT'S IT LIKE TO BE Bi?
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From: Chimera  (Original Message)Sent: 5/26/2005 4:41 PM
Being Bi is a little like being in two places at once or like standing in a candy store when you were 10 seeling all the great stuff and knowing you only have 3cents. It's a constant struggle to find that special person when everyone seems special. LOL

That's not the worst of it, no mam! Then you have to contend with the feelings of disorientation, hell sometimes it's like hey everyone else is going in the same direction and I'm going the other way. Then the paranoia creeps in, 'what do they know that I don't?' Then there's the fear, does anyone notice I'm different, does it show, am I exposed? Fact is while your grou ing up everyone else is still trying to figure out the whole growing up thing and their all too busy to notice your schisim's.

Time moves on and now your a teenager well the worlds your oyster, you would think! Except when God made you Bi, lavished you with choice, a teenage body and a sex drive strong enough to kill a rino he also gifted you being so shy you'd die if anyone looked at you twice. So what do you do? Well, as you asked I'll tell you, you imagine sanarios involving you and your latest crush be it G or B.

Then later as you become a 'young adult' what ever that is it's then you start to feel that people have started to notice your 'different'. Things get even more complicated when you sister brings home her boyfriend and her girlfriends and you fancy some of each.

Slowly though you grow and you mature and over time you realise that nothings changed since you were a kid. The only differnece is you've magically turned into your mom and you wish you knew then what you know now.

If you agree with any of the statements made here or wish to add your own then please feel free, but please make it light hearted and fun.

Look forward to hearing from you all.

Regards
Chimera


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From: MSN NicknameMsLushus1Sent: 5/26/2005 6:40 PM
OK,I'VE BEEN READING THESE POSTS,WITH INTEREST,AND NOT FEELING QUALIFIED TO REALLY RESPOND,HAVE SAT ON THE SIDELINES.
BUT I READ SOMETHING THIS EVENING THAT HAS MADE ME REALLY ANGRY.
(I DON'T EVEN KNOW IF THIS IS THE RIGHT PLACE TO PUT THIS,BUT I JUST WANTED TO SHARE IT).
CURRENTLY,I AM READING THE AUTOBIOGRAPHY OF CAROLINE ROBERTS,WHO WAS  A VICTIM OF FRED AND ROSE WEST,BUT LUCKILY ESCAPED TO TELL THE TALE.
(FOR OUR OVERSEAS MEMBERS,THIS WAS AN HORRIFIC CASE WHICH CAME TO LIGHT IN THE '90'S,BUT SPANNED OVER 2 DECADES,WHERE A HUSBAND AND WIFE RAPED AND MURDERED YOUNG GIRLS AND BURIED THEM IN THE GARDEN/CELLAR,ETC OF THEIR HOME.SOME OF THESE GIRLS WERE THEIR OWN CHILDREN.).
ANYWAY,PROBABLY DUE TO THE WAY CAROLINE WAS ABUSED BY ROSE,THERE APPEARS TO BE AN UNDERLYING "STAND-OFFISHNESS" TOWARDS LESBIANS.OK,MAYBE THAT'S THE WAY SHE FEELS FOLLOWING HER ORDEAL,BUT A BIT I'VE READ THIS EVENING MADE ME ANNOYED....
 
"....I KNOW OF QUITE A FEW GIRLS HERE IN CINDERFORD WHO HAVE BEEN IN THREESOMES WITH MARRIED COUPLES OR HAVE BEEN WITH MORE THAN ONE MAN IN ONE DAY.
CINDERFORD ALSO HAS ITS OWN VERY ATTRACTIVE LESBIAN WHO SEEMS TO HAVE CONVERTED A GOOD DOZEN YOUNG WOMEN TO BI-SEXUALITY..."
 
 Yelling  I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START WITH THAT STATEMENT!!
SO..WHAT..? CINDERFORD HAS JUST THE ONE LESBIAN THEN,DOES IT?

 

AND SHE MUST BE SOOOOO EVIL....FANCY "CONVERTING" ALL THOSE POOR,INNOCENT "STRAIGHT" GIRLS TO A LIFE OF BI-SEXUALITY!!

SHE MUST HAVE FORCED THEM INTO IT....OR,MAYBE IT REALLY IS TRUE...SOME PEOPLE HAVE BRAINS OF THEIR OWN,AND LIVE THEIR LIVES THE WAY THEY CHOOSE,REGARDLESS OF WHETHER MS.ROBERTS SEES IT AS "NORMAL" OR NOT. SO,WE DON'T WISH TO LIVE THE WAY SHE DOES...SO WHAT?

I'D JUST LIKE TO POINT OUT THAT "NORMAL" SHOULD ONLY EVER REFER TO A PROGRAMME ON OUR WASHING MACHINES.....

WHY,OH,WHY DO SOME PEOPLE HAVE THIS NOTION THAT GAYS/LESBIANS/BI'S ARE OUT TO CORRUPT THE "STRAIGHTS"?

IN MY OWN EXPERIENCE,THOSE OF YOU WHO KNOW MY HISTORY,KNOW I WAS WITH MY EX-HUSBAND FOR OVER 20 YEARS,MARRIED FOR 19,3 GREAT CHILDREN,1 BEAUTIFUL GRAND-DAUGHTER. WHEN I MET LU,I KNEW I'D FOUND THE ABSOLUTE LOVE OF MY LIFE,AND YET I'D NEVER LOOKED AT ANOTHER WOMAN IN THAT WAY. WHEN WE FIRST GOT TOGETHER,MY EX AND I WERE ON THE ROCKS ANYWAY,SO THE PHYSICAL SIDE OF THINGS WERE WINDING DOWN,AND LU HAD A CASUAL(SAFE) NO-STRINGS THING WITH A BLOKE(IT WAS VERY,VERY SHORT TERM). I REMEMBER ASKING HER,"DOES THAT MEAN WE'RE BI?" . WE'D FIGURED THAT MAYBE WE WERE,BUT AS TIME WENT ON AND THE BLOKES GOT KICKED INTO TOUCH,AND LU AND I REALIZED WE ONLY WANTED EACH OTHER,WE KNEW WE WERE LESBIANS. IT ONLY TOOK ME 40 YEARS TO FIGURE THAT OUT!!

SO,AS I SAID,I DON'T FEEL QUALIFIED TO TALK ABOUT BI'S,BUT I'M VERY EASY GOING AND I 'M THE LAST PERSON TO JUDGE ANYONE.

WE ARE WHO WE ARE.

WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE.

LIVE IS TOO SHORT,SO LET'S GET OUT THERE AND LIVE IT!!

 Flowers 








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From: MSN NicknameMsLushus1Sent: 5/26/2005 6:54 PM
*LIVE IS TOO SHORT,SO LET'S GET OUT THERE AND LIVE IT!!*
 
SORRY,LADIES!
I MEAN.."LIFE IS TOO SHORT,SO LET'S GET OUT THERE AND LIVE IT!!"
(HAVEN'T GOT MY GLASSES ON!!).  

Flowers




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From: Ms KellySent: 5/26/2005 7:00 PM
Hello MsLushus1,
 
Don't know if you will read this but I just read your post number 2 and I didn't notice you wrote "live" instead of "life"..
perhaps I need glasses too??  I know I don't need them...I think?!
anyway it made sense when I read it.
 
thanks
 
just wanted to let you know  :-)

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From: MSN NicknameBrandedSnB1Sent: 5/27/2005 7:23 AM
I understood it hehehe...
 
SnB
"The older we get, the less concerned we are about appearance.."

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