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From: MSN NicknamePeeeeee3  (Original Message)Sent: 5/4/2005 10:11 PM


Hi

I hope there are other ladies out there like me, Im 49 and it has taken me this long to realise where my feelings lay and don't know quite what to do about them

I,ve just joined your community and am looking to make friends on line

I'm in the Southeast of England and do not know how to meet other ladies that I can relax with and build friendships


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From: MSN NicknameCharitydingle21Sent: 5/17/2005 1:36 PM
Hope you enjoyed yourself on Sunday, Peeeee!
 
Sorry I couldn't chat for long but as you know I was playing rounders most of the time.  Really paying for it now though, feel like I have done 10 rounds with Mike Tyson, hope you can come to Keeley's party at the Riverside on Saturday - no Friday meet this week, it is being held at the party instead.
 
Nice to meet you and hope you had a good time.
 
xx

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From: JazzieSent: 6/6/2005 10:26 AM
I was the same, i was into my 30's before i did anything about my feelings. I too have done the married 3 kids bit. It does feel very lonely and confusing i know.I just joined this group a couple of days ago myself and i can see that im not so alone as i thought i was
 
Btw am also in the south east
 
Jazzie x

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From: MSN NicknamePeeeeee3Sent: 6/6/2005 9:08 PM
Hi Jazzie

Its always nice to know that your not alone.
Have also emailed you

Pee

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From: MSN Nickname»ÐÎzŽzŽzŽỷ«™Sent: 6/6/2005 9:47 PM
Hi and welcome to the group ... it must be a way of life ...
i was also married, 3 kids, and in my 30`s before i decided to own up to my true feelings.
Never looked back since ,... hope ya find your feet  :)

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From: JazzieSent: 6/7/2005 8:11 AM
Thanks

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From: MSN Nicknamecharitydingle1Sent: 6/7/2005 8:47 AM
Hi Peeee
 
Hope you ok, not seen you around at the group.
 
Seems like you are finding your feet here though, they are a great bunch of girls.
 
If you need anything, just ask.  Welcome.
 
Take care
 
Donna xx
 
 

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From: MSN Nicknamenickyb575Sent: 9/7/2006 3:08 PM
Hi Jazzie,
You said you've done the "married with three kids", how are things now? Any regrets? I'm just coming to the end of my marriage after 24 years and I'm really, really scared. I'm 43 and only just coming to terms with, not just my sexuality but my own happiness as well. I just feeel so incomplete and know I've got to move on. How old are your kids Jazzie and are they ok with things now? Please email me. I know I probably sound a bit desparate but I feel there's so many questions I need answering and there's no one to ask because I don't know anyone who would understand! I feel so guilty and selfish for screwing up my kids just so I can get what I want. But don't we all deserve to be happy? 
        

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From: MSN NicknameFluffa3Sent: 9/8/2006 4:26 PM
Hi Nicky and welcome to the group.
 
You will probably find there are quite a few of us who have been there, done that and got the t-shirt lol
 
Look forward to seeing you around
 
 

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From: MSN NicknameWifie7892Sent: 9/17/2006 4:06 PM
Hey Nicky,
 
It is the funny thing about the net .... you find heaps of folk who know what u are talking about. I am another one who has been there and got the tea shirt !
 
I split up from my hubby 8 mths ago and I won't pretend it has not been hard ..... but definitely the right thing to do. Feel free to e-mail any questions and I will happily tell u anything I know. ( I don't know much tho !! lol) But there is no one answer that is right for everybody ..... just what is right for you.
 
Have a good wkend

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From: bigbubblyandbiSent: 9/19/2006 2:05 PM
I am still married with 3 kids , I think it must be in the 30's and having the 3rd child that does it ..lol
 
my hubby is my very best friend and I love him dearly , it took a very long time but he knows who I am now and we are happy.
 
best wishes to you all xx

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From: MSN Nicknamecatrena1021Sent: 9/19/2006 4:59 PM
hi 3 kids ? gosh one was enough for me .. good on you .. and still mates
with your hubby to that is realy good ..well done wat a woman ...

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From: MSN Nicknamepoppy38Sent: 9/26/2006 12:12 AM
Hello!
 
Nice to see so many other woman in similar situations. I'm 38 & came out, to my friends & (some) family earlier this year. I told my son first, & he wasn't as shocked as I'd expected.
I'm living in Somerset & feel quite isolated. I went to a gay club in Bristol & a gay night in Taunton earlier this month, with a gay (male) friend of mine. Both nights were total disasters; I think I can safely say the 'scene' is not for me.
But what else is there for me?
I tried making friends on Gaydar but it seems so fake (I had a very unpleasant experience with a seemingly nice, educated, 'normal' woman, that turned out to be a very nasty MAN!
People on here sound nicer though, so I'll give it a go!

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From: MSN NicknamequietmeSent: 9/26/2006 2:13 AM
hi i 2 am in my 30s well 33 lol,have 1 child and recently seperated from my husband ,i felt guilty about my feelins but now i am finally happy bein me ,someone who is a lesbian and can be true 2 myself,after havin told my ex and some of my family i feel like a weight has been lifted of my shoulders,my only problem is most of the ppl i chat 2 r from england,scotland and wales.i am from ireland and would like 2 meet someone as a friend and maybe more in time but i am nervous as this is still new 2 me,sorry if i went on a bit but would like 2 chat ,so bye 4 now hope 2 chat soon xx

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From: MSN Nicknamealyjay7Sent: 9/28/2006 11:41 AM
Hi not posted much,  but can totaly relate to  what  is being said , In the same  situation .so it would be good to chat  sometime  .x

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From: pureSent: 9/28/2006 9:54 PM
..hey ladies....ditto to all the above post...
im also one of those """done that bought the t-shirt"""".........lol we are everywhere...
 
but last year was a bad un....seems likes ages ago now....but time and true feelins is the "healer"..
lol says me,who's not fully out yet....but folk wouldnt be at all suprised if i did come out...
this year has been a really good un ....i met my pav ...
pure xxx

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