Look at your keyboard, on the far left. There's a button there that has the letters C-A-P-S L-O-C-K. Press it.
I read or have read to me every post that my husband makes, and I have helped him write/critiqued his writing quite often.
As I have said quite often, you, the reader, hear what you want to hear. You obviously are in denial of your own anger issues. Take a class, most cities offer help for that.
My husband has never raised a hand to me or any other woman he has ever known, even if they have tried to physically assault him themselves in their own uncontrollable anger.
I agitate and disagree with my husband lots, and we get along just fine.
You have failed to prove there is any adultery here.
The Holy Spirit decides who has the Holy Spirit, not you.
You are arrogant. You are angry. You are bitter. You are hateful. You need the Holy Spirit. You are telling on yourself.
And just so you know, you addressed JT as my husband. Freudian slip, perhaps?