Dear Jkody,
You are welcome to come visit in our Realm, your lady Spirit Guide is now telling me. She came a few minutes ago when I posted up above. She wishes also for your "Wholeness of Self" Energy Level to become increased, which she is willing to do right here now. So when you go to sleep tonight you will find yourself being given higher wavelength of energy to encapsulate and ensure that you are going up in wavelengths. She is able to send the wavelength up two levels. After that, she will be able to inquire about your vibrational rate and increase it to the 7th Dimension level. In essence here your Spirit Guide, a lady whose name is Carly, is answering Question #2 on your list. She is going to come forth soon and will introduce herself to you.
As far as Question #3, you will find yourself welcoming someone in when you reach a level of prosperity that affords that which is called "independence". Right now she adds that this is not where you are at currently. So get ready to have some psychic work being done on you for improvement, then see what else transpires.
As to Question #1, Carly is saying that on your Goals List you wrote that you desired freedom of choice, to be escallated into the 11th Dimension from where you were at prior to reincarnating here, and chose deliberately to have challenges facing you. That is why you've had a bit of struggle there. Give Carly a chance now at escalating your wavelength up some and then see how much you yourself can imagine occurring in your life, she says.
This is all she shared with me, and if anyone else has any input here for Jkody, please do share!
Peace and Blessings,
Lilly