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Thanks I will start working on this ASAP.    He asked me if I had a spell to get her to move on as she is getting all worked up over the whole thing.  He just wants her to move peacefully on as they don't get along.  He is conservative and she isn't.  She accuses him of having a closed mind and being to close to us.  She is also mad at him because he won't commit to marriage (he is 23 and still in school)  he won't give up his school and future goals for her and this is making her mad.  So he turned to Mom to help.  And so I turn to you guys *S*. 

 

Thanks ever so much and I will let you know how it goes.  Interesting thing is, is that she knows what I am  and still she says nasty things about the family and Jmaes to me.  Like she doesn't think that I would eventually do something?  I did tell James though That I wouldn't cast any spells on her to move on untill he asked me to.  I guess she just thinks that I play at it like her highschool friends.  She doesn't realize that it isn't a game to me but my way of life.  Oh well.  I guess I had better stop ranting now.  Can't help it though I do get a littel upset when one of my own is threatened or hurt.  I consider all of you guys here at the Lair oneof my own aslo.

 

Love and Laughter

~Raveness~

 

 

 

 

Here is an update on my son and his situation.  he broke it off witht he girl and she says she wants to be friends and has been calling him.  he asked me to tell her not to call him anymore until he is ready adn that at this point in time it is just to painful to be friends.  maybe some time in the future when it doesn't hurt so much.  So I did.  I was accussed of enjoying hurting her and making her cry.  I was more than a little insulted at this comment as I was just trying to help out.  I politely told her that it was not my objective and that I wished her no ill will.  So after my son called me and had a good cry about the whole deal he has turned his regular telephone off, turned his answering machine on and down and has asked us to call him on his cell phone.  She won't because it would be a long distance call for her to his number and she won't do it.  he will be home on the 12th for spring break for a week.  he is looking forward to it.  He had great feelings for this girl but knew deep in his heart that she wasn't the one for him.  He has gone out for the first time by himself to the local bar and had a few beers.  Not more than three. *LOL*  I think he is waiting until he gets home to really drown his sorrows.  Anyways that is how it stands to date.  I will show him the spell before I cast it just to ease his mind as to it's content.  Thanks for all the support and energies.  I know that his knowing we are all here for him is helping him.  he knows even if she doesn't not to piss off a bunch of Witches.  he has a healthy respect for us and our familiars.  He also knows Mom has sent her dragons three down ot watch out for him and give his guy some help.

 

 

 

Moonhippie:  all we can hope is to try to help people understand that we aren't all warts and twitching noses.  It gets tiresome but I know we can do it.  Sometimes I just let people think I am Wuccan.  They somehow see this as less threatening than Witch.  SOme I correct but they don't get teh concept of Green Witch.  My Dad just tells people I am a Good Witch or White Witch.  Sometimes they understand that.  I am sorry your brother is going through the same thing as my son.  I guess all we can really do is let them know we are there for them.

 

Love and Laughter

~Raveness~