Nothing breeds fairness faster than visibility.
Visibility is simply another word for truth.
Know the truth and the truth shall set you free.
In personal relationships and all relationships it's about loss.
It's about being afraid of what one might lose or fail to gain.
Yet the best personal relationships, and certainly the best romantic ones, are those in which everyone knows everything, in which visibility is not only the watch word, but the only word, in which there simply are no secrets...
In these relationships nothing is withheld, nothing is shaded or coloured or hidden or disguised.
Nothing is left out or unspoken...there is no guesswork, there is no game playing, no-one is doing a dance, running a number or shining you on..
This isn't about having no mental privacy, no safe space in which to move through your personal process.
This is simply about being open and honest in your dealings with another.
This is about simply telling the truth when you speak, and about withholding no truth when you know it should be spoken.
This is about never again lying, or shading, or verbally or mentally manipulating, or twisting your truth into the hundred and one other contortions which typify the largest number of human communications...
This is about coming clean, telling it like it is, giving it to them straight. This is about ensuring that all individuals have all the data and know everything they need to know on a subject.
This is about fairness and openess and , well...
~Excerpt from CWG Book 2~