Do not blame what you call God for your problems. It is so easy to lay the blame at someone else's feet. God, or the Ultimate Being is not a person, but an energy! It is the collective consciousness of the whole of humanity. It is an energy in its own right, but it knows all that happens on the Earth plane.
It does not cause what happens, but it knows ALL and everything about you, your problems and how you make those problems. It cannot help you though until you begin to help yourself, until you ask for that help.
It is the purest form of love that you can experience, and for those rare souls who experience the power and the love of this energy, their lives are never the same after they have been exposed to it.
YOU are the ones who make the problems, your fear, doubt, insecurity, jealousy, envy, anger, and many other negative emotions create your problems. These are all fed by the Self which is fear and doubt in its own energy. It fears change, it fears moving out of the comfort zone and so it keeps you there, Earth year, after Earth year, trapped in a bubble of fear.
The day you step out of that fear, that doubt, that anger etc., is the day you become liberated and can then begin using the energy for positive not negative purposes. God as you know this energy, is the power and the force that can assist you to change. This energy will lead you and guide you. But do not expect it to be in a religious sense, because God will often give you an opportunity in disguise.
It may not come in the way you expect it, always be on the lookout for the unexpected. Each one of you is an energy learning your lessons, growing, expanding, getting closer to God. One day, you will merge with this energy and then you will know rapture!
This cannot be done with the wave of a magic wand, nor can it be done overnight, it takes sometimes painful effort and the fight against the Self until this can happen. When it does you will enter Paradise (Nirvana in eastern terms) and experience the joy of oneness with God. Many souls on the earth plane have already experienced this, why not you?