"He who angers you, controls you."
E. Kenney, Australian Nurse
"If you want to have a hope in hell of winning this, stop thinking like a victim
and start thinking like the police, lawyers, courts, therapists and child therapists."
member quote
Keyword search terminology - incest abuse allegations,
Gathering Evidence for a Restraining Order
http://www.lovefraud.com/blog/2008/05/26/help-in-gathering-evidence-for-a-restraining-order/
“When courts blame victims and fail to hold abusers accountable, they reinforce abuser behavior, subvert justice, disempower the victims, teach children that abusive behavior is permissible and may even be rewarded, and reinforce the cycle of violence.�?
Joan Zorza, Esq.
Batterer Manipulation and Retaliation Denial and Complicity In the Family Courts
http://www.stopfamilyviolence.org/ocean/host.php?folder=62&page=377
Legal Abuse Syndrome [PTSD from involvement with the legal system]
http://www.legalabusesyndrome.org/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XeGdK2cvNY8 [video]
High-Conflict Divorce - Custody
http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/pad-rpad/rep-rap/2004_1/p4.html
The Martindale site to find a lawyer
http://www.martindale.com/xp/Martindale/home.xml
Recommended Lawyers List/Guardian ad Litem/Custody Evaluators
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/attorneys.htm
Hiring an Attorney
http://www.bpdcentral.com/resources/attorney/index.shtml
WinChildCustody Attorneys
http://www.childcustodyattorney.net/usstatedir.htm
Child Abuse Defence Kit (lawyers)
http://members.tripod.com/cadkit/
Annulments/Civil Judgment Based on Fraud
http://www.straightshooter.net/Sweetheart_Scam_Justice.htm
Ten Questions about Annulment (Catholic)
http://americancatholic.org/Newsletters/CU/ac1002.asp
Hint: Your local women's shelters often know the most experienced lawyers.
Legal Separation
http://womansdivorce.com/separation.html
Small Justice
http://www.smalljustice.com/index2.html
Play Therapy for children
http://www.playtherapyforchildren.com/index.html
Courageous Kids - Court-abused kids
http://courageouskids.net/
Are "good enough" parents losing custody to abusive X partners? (cites references your lawyer may need)
http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/1/pas/dv.html
When Paradigms Collide: Protecting Battered Parents and Their Children in the Family Court System by Clare Dalton
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/dalton.html
Dealing with the Most Difficult Clients by Joseph Shaub
http://www.wsba.org/media/publications/barnews/2005/may-05-shaub.htm
American Psychological Assn. Guidelines for Child Custody Evaluations in Divorce Proceedings
http://www.apa.org/practice/childcustody.html
Professional Association of Custody Evaluators (PACE)
http://www.pace-custody.org/
Women's Law Initiative - Custody/Kidnapping
http://www.womenslaw.org/custody.htm#kidnap
Family Law Courts
http://www.familylawcourts.com/
Guidelines for Child Custody Evaluation in Divorce Proceedings
http://www.apa.org/practice/childcustody.html
Great links to custody websites
http://www.custody911.com/
Examples of a Parenting Plan
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/kansas/kansas_parenting_plan
Parenting Plan Template
http://womansdivorce.com/parenting-plan-template.html
How to Write a Petition for Custody
http://www.leightravis.com/writepetition.htm
Why Psychopath Parents are Successful in Court
http://www.custody911.com/custodyconsult3/_disc12/00001557.htm
Custody Evaluation
http://www.custodyevaluation.com
Custody Preparation for Mothers
http://www.custodyprepformoms.org/readlist.htm
Sites on Custody
http://directory.google.com/Top/Society/Relationships/Divorce/Children%27s_Issues/Custody/Support_Groups/
Questioning the Mental Health Expert's Custody Report
http://fact.on.ca/Info/pas/turkat93.htm
Alliance of Non-Custodial Parents' Rights
http://www.ancpr.org/
Coping with Inconsistent Parental Access
http://www.myndtalk.org/htm/inconsistentparenting.htm
My Dad, The Monster
http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/page.msnw
The Role of the Parenting Co-ordinator
http://www2.state.id.us/judicial/rules/ircp16l.rul
Co-parenting - DOCUMENT!
http://www.bpdcentral.com/resources/library/alan.htm
Joint Custody org
http://www.jointcustody.org/
General Child Custody Questions
http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/
Custody Preparation for Mothers
http://www.custodyprepformoms.org/
Custody & Divorce Page of Information
http://www.bpdresources.com/divorcecustody.html
http://www.bpdresources.com/divorcecustody.html#legaltools
http://www.bpdcentral.com/links/legal.shtml
Custody Access site
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/custody___access.html
Custody and Access - Surviving the System
http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/surviving_the_system.html
Guidelines for Child Custody Evaluations in Divorce Proceedings
http://www.apa.org/practice/childcustody.html
WHAT HAPPENS IN A CUSTODY DISPUTE WHERE ONE PARENT IS MENTALLY ILL?
http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/custody_dispute_parent_ill.htm
http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/
Successful Transitions for High Conflict Divorce
http://ianrpubs.unl.edu/family/nf550.htm
Managing Visitation in High-Conflict Situations
Custody/Visitation/Phone Calls & More Time Tracking Tools (Commercial Site)
http://www.parentingtime.net/ipn/reena_signup.php
Our Family Wizard - a family communication site (commercial site)
http://ourfamilywizard.com/index.cfm
Child Custody and Protection �?US Dept. of Justice Violence Against Women Resources
http://www.vaw.umn.edu/ccp.asp
Child Custody org
http://www.childcustody.org/
Win the Child Custody War �?Resource Books
http://www.custodywar.com/win.htm
Tips to Prepare for child custody evaluation mediation
http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com/articles/divorce/custody.html
TheLiz Library
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/contents.html
Custody/Divorce/Legal Stalking
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/liz/FRtactic.html
http://www.thelizlibrary.org/
CASA Court-Appointed Special Advocates (for children)
http://www.casanet.org/
Supervised Visitation by CASA Supervisors
http://www.casanet.org/program-management/volunteer-
manage/supervised-visit-casa-vol.htm
Guardian ad litem in divorce proceedings
http://www.divorcesource.com/cgi-bin/search/catsearch.pl?cat=Guardian_Ad_Litem
Guardian ad litem information
http://www.gal.alachua.fl.us/
Shared Parenting Council of Australia (check out their articles) - not just Aus!
http://www.spca.org.au/library.htm
Parenting After Divorce (resolving conflicts) book recommendation
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1886230269/
104-2010862-4104702?v=glance
The 730 Evaluation
http://www.divorcewizards.com/730-1.html
Parenting After Divorce
http://www.divorcenet.com/states/colorado/coart_11
Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act
Http://www.law.upenn.edu/bll/ulc/fnact99/1990s/uccjea97.htm
Judicial Action That Can Help Keep Children and Victims Safe
http://www.omsys.com/fivers/visits.htm
Reporting Procedures for Child Protection Services
http://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/bhcv2/bhcarticles.nsf/pages/
Child_abuse_reporting_procedures?open
Personality Disorders and the Legal Profession
http://www.lectlaw.com/filesh/tabbpd.htm
FERPA Laws about disclosure of education standings etc.
http://www.ed.gov/policy/gen/guid/fpco/ferpa/index.html
How to Be a Good Client
http://www.deltabravo.net/guide/
National Legal Aid and Defender Assn. (USA)
http://www.nlada.org
